Friends list note - Everyone is more than welcome to add me to your friends lists. It makes me feel all important and stuff. Comments are welcome from any and all (even those that don't add me, of course). Comments from non-friends are automatically screened, but I usually release them pretty soon. I just like to keep control of what is on my pages, so even if I add you, your messages may be screened. Please try to refrain from using "adult" icons and language. Also, don't be stupid.
I am not the sort to automatically add everyone that adds me. I usually won't add someone unless I want to read the journal or show them my deepest darkest secrets. Such is life. It doesn't mean I don't like you. Having you on my friends list doesn't necessarily mean I do like you. If I delete you from my list of friends without any warning, IT DOES NOT CONSTITUTE AN INSULT . . . If I wanted to insult you, believe me, I would. I don't like to use filters to make people feel better about themselves, either. If you want to know why you've been removed, ask, don't assume. My rules for adding people to and subtracting them from my friends list are ineffable. My Ways are Mysterious.
I do, however, feel better about myself when people add me...so go right ahead. Make my day!