talitha_kumi ([info]talitha_kumi) wrote,
@ 2005-01-17 18:39:00
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Attention seeking
Is attention seeking bad? At what point does attention-seeking become good, or become bad?

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[info]vashti
2005-01-17 08:18 pm UTC (link)
We're wired to need love and attention... "if you can't have good love, then you will have bad". So I don't think attention seeking is wrong, it's just something said to belittle people so that they can be categorised away and ignored.

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[info]kawaiinoir
2005-01-17 09:56 pm UTC (link)
I think it's only bad if you are hurting/deceiving people in the process, everyone does it, I know I do. Sometimes people can't help but hurt/deceive people, it may be the only way to get their message across, though I think honestly asking for help is usually a better option, it's difficult sometimes though
xx

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[info]celticferret
2005-01-21 09:06 pm UTC (link)
Searching for attention is nuetral. How and why you do it can be good or bad. If you want people to celebrate your accomplishments, celebrate rituals from childhood and with your adult friends to re-live happy events. If you cheat on a loved, threaten suicide, stalk someone, and harm yourself in some way, you have either health or mental problems that need immdediate attention.

KG

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