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If you are dating someone who says they aren’t ready to commit, would you wait? How long?

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  • Maybe a few months, around six, maximum. It all depends on why they're not ready.
  • Funny, i was, but neither of us were ready to commit. We just spent our time in what i consider an open relationship; therefore it didn't work out. I believe that if it is meant to be, than it'll be. If it's not the right time, it's just not the right time and i don't think you can ever really do anything about it. .
  • I think I would, depending on the situation. It would also depend on what I have going on in my life. I'm not sure that I would be ready to get married at this point in my life, anyway.
  • if he's worth it, as long as it takes - or a long while
  • Yes. Years if I have to. Well, first of all I wouldnt ask anyone to commit unless I am absolutely sure about him. And when I'm absolutely sure about him, then I am pretty sure I'd be able to hold back for years if I have to. What else is there to do? Secondly, I'm not in a rush for marriage (I still think it's a first-class, one way ticket to the ruin of life). In fact, it might become the other way around..that I'm the one who won't be ready to commit.. (−_−;)
  • Я все еще жду lol ;) Нет конечно ))
  • Я все еще жду lol ;) Нет конечно ))
  • My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now, and he has not made any physical contact with me whatsoever. Whenever we meet, it seems as if he comes up with excuses as to why he does not want to kiss me or go places with me, or even hold hands. I guess the reason why he doesn't want to do any of these things is because he isn't ready to commit. Okay, I don't want him committing to me because I am an independent woman who prefers to take care of herself and prefers that her guy takes care of himself. Regardless, if I'm in a relationship with a guy, I want and desire some physical contact, because that will make me feel as if I'm cared about. He told me that it's vice versa! I'll give him until year's end to decide what he wants to do, because it does seem as if he's not interested in me as much as I though he was. At year's end, if he hasn't made any physical contact with me or told me how he really feels about me, then that's it, I'm moving on with my life.
  • Главное, чтобы я был готов к серьезным отношениям и видел, что у них есть перспектива. А подождать можно сколько требуется

  • it's best to go away, however, you will only be able to leave physically :).
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