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Fool me once...

Have you ever been betrayed by a friend or partner who asked for forgiveness? Were you able to forgive and/or forget? What was the result?

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  • Да на словах простить можно,но в душе это останется навсегда.Лучше закончить отношения сразу ,чем в конце тягостных отношений понять,что ты так и не простил((((

  • I... cannot forgive them, however I'm pretending all nonchalant, like nothing was ever happened.
  • That's a tough one... betrayal.... I guess it depends on the severity of the betrayal.... but if it's something strong enough to be called a betrayal I'm not so sure..... I mean usually when someone betrays me it's in matters of the heart. I find when someone does something like that they usually continue doing it or they will end up doing it again sooner or later. Also when trust is broken trying to fix it is sometimes like handling shards of broken glass you can try piecing it together but it'll never be the same and it hurts in the process. I can forgive people and sooner or later the memory of what happened fades but I never completely forget. Also I think in a way to forget is bad because you then can end up in a repeat of the past.... like they say history repeating itself. Also I kind of resent the idea that you have to forgive everything everything a person ever does to you because again if they think they can do whatever they want and you'll just forgive them they will do whatever they want.
  • I pissed Amy, Kim, Jane, Trevor, Robin, Christina, Laura, Susie, Adam, Jerry, Meggyn, Colette, Kris, Mackenzie, Theresa, Dana, Victoria, Gera, and Manu off way more than they ever did anything to me where they felt even the remote need to ask for forgiveness. Although once Manu got drunk and wouldn't get out of Gera's car. He was also rude to everyone so I swore I would never speak to him again. Then he called me the next day to apologize. Then he took me to get ice cream the day after that. I forgave and forgot. The result was that we patched things up.
  • if you have been betrayed or wronged you have no option but to forgive and forget if you want to move on. it's going to hurt so bad and almost impossible to do.. but with God it's possible.
  • I can forgive.. but i cant forget..usually.

  • Actually I have. I forgave her cheating on me. I guess I can say it was easier that more than half a year had passed since she had stopped going out with him. She left me a couple of months after she told me she had though, and went out with . . . I don't know if I really want to tell anymore. It's pretty sad, and a sad statement for me too, opening myself up in my loyalty to be such a 'fool'. I guess the rest will be left a mystery for strangers, and stay between myself and my friends.

  • Yes, I have been betrayed. Unfortunately, there are people who will hurt others and ignore the consequences of their actions. Forgiveness is the only way to move forward, to be able to enjoy life. Not forgiving the other person(s) only hurts you. The anger becomes a part of you and consumes you. You find no joy in what you do, you begin to sink into a state that is hard to leave.

    Fortunately, I have been able to forgive on numerous occasions. This does not mean that I was not angry. If you are hurt, you have every right to be upset, to feel anger, but do not let the anger consume you. Forgiveness takes time; it doesn't happen in a matter of seconds. It can take days, weeks, months, even years to let go of the pain. I released a lot of pain when I last forgave someone for hurting me. It was probably one of the most beautiful things I experienced. I became closer to my friends, began new friendships, and I came to a new understanding of who I was. I could not have done this without God. I have never been happier with my life and I value every relationship and everything that I have.

  • Yes.
    I tried and managed to mostly succeed.
    She stabbed me in the back a couple years later.
  • Вас когда-нибудь предавал друг или любовник, который просил прощения? Вы смогли его простить? Что в итоге случилось? Ответ:Ах,какой шипитильный вопрос!Да,было дела,что меня предал мой дружок,но он во время просил прощения,и вызывал у меня жалость.Простила.Я очень ядовитая женщина и укусала его тоже и он меня тоже простил(это фифти фифти называется)В итоге ничего не случилось,живем каждый своей жизню,у каждого отдельня республика,потому что нечего делить с ним.Досвидос не смогли сказать друг другу,потому что мы оба знаем ,что говорят"Земля не квадратная!"
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