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If you wanted to have children and had trouble conceiving, would you be more likely to consider IVF, surrogacy, or adoption, and why?

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  • Adopt. So many children don't have parents already.
  • I'd probably adopt. I've considered it quite a few times because I don't think it's worth it to pass down my bipolar disorder and anxiety disorder and obsessive compulsive disorder. I've decided that those genes need to stop here. Unless I can meet someone with superior genetics that can overcome these flaws, adoption is the best choice.

  • I plan to adopt as my first choice! God has brought so many beautiful children into being, and they need loving homes. It's a dream of mine to continue to study Russian, and possibly take some training in child care and psychology, and go help out at the orphanages there. I love kids and would love to be a dad someday, but don't think that sharing DNA with my child would be a necessary component to me loving them.

  • Adoption because there are so many children in the world who need good homes...why bring another child in the world when there are so many other kids who need you?

    And I always wanted to adopt from China because I'm ethnically Chinese,  so it wouldn't be like the child would stick out and get a whole bunch of questions.

  • Начнем с того, что это не входит в планы моего существования. А проблем не существует.
  • Тупой вопрос. Если решили завести ребенка, то почему нет?

  • I would consider adoption before anything else. There are so many children in the world that are without families. If I could not naturally conceive I would take that a sign that I'm supposed to adopt a child. My baby sister's best friend was adopted from an impoverished family in Africa,  and there is no comparison to the life she has now compared to the one she would have had.  
  • i would want to try IVF just because i would want my children to be my own flesh and blood. however, i think that adoption would always be an excellent option. these children have already been born but have no family. that's a really terrible situation. maybe i'd try both IVF and adoption.
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