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If you could say anything you want to the person who has hurt you most in life, what would it be? Did you ever confront them? Why or why not?

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  • I forgive you.

  • Why?

  • I would say thank you because i know i'll find someone better

  •      This question really caught my attention, because I've been asking myself that ever since that fateful day. Almost as if I was asking, "If you could do it over again, would you, and what would you say?"

         I would tell him that I love him again, but part of me would steer clear of the "IN love with..." part, because I know how it would turn out if I mentioned that again.
         I would slap him clear across the face, hoping it would sting and hurt, and then kiss it better. He needs to know that he can't treat me like this. He needs to know that I hate him and love him at the same time, and it's killing me.
         I would yell and scream that he is the biggest damn jerk on the planet, and that he should go to hell for all that he's put me through. And then I would hug him, and tell him I'm fine, and that, even though he hurt me like nothing I've ever felt before, he is still one of my best friends, and I couldn't live without him.

         There are so many things I would do and say to him if I had the chance to do it over again. But I don't, and things happened the way they did because they were meant to.

         I would punch him in the mouth, and then kiss him like he's never been kissed before, because that is how we work.

         I hate him, I love him, I hate him, I love him...


  • I could have really killed him for all that he have done to satisfy my revenge... but my conscience can't take it. I might kill myself first before I do it.
  • If I could say anything that I wanted to someone, I would ask my mother if she ever really loved me. What was the reason for her loving my siblings more than me. And what are the reasons for her always doubting me. I was a good kid and never disrespected her unlike my occasionally mouthy little sister,(not that she didn't have a good reason). And why did she always think I was the not-so-good one. I am the one who respected her no matter what! I have never confronted her because I knew that she would just brush it off like she did when my sister and I would try to talk to her about the abuse from our childhood.
  • I would have to say, "I forgive you." No confrontation, it could not have happened. I am damaged, but I am at peace with this.
  • I would say: "How could you bare to look at us each day, to see the Joyful Smiles on our faces, knowing that when we oneday found out about this there would be no more Smiles on our faces [and only tears falling down our cheeks]? How could you bear to live with yourself, knowing that you had to lie every single day of your life? Did you honestly believe that the Punishment would be worse than the Sin? You're a Fool.... Look at what YOU caused! Look at how you destroyed me.... Look at the tears running down my face, and if you look into my eyes you might just see what I'm truely feeling, thinking.... Do you know how much pain I'm in? Do you even Care? Just take it back! Tell me it never happened! Tell me it's just a Nightmare, and when I wake-up I'll be 5-years-old again and the World will be Perfect! TELL ME! Tell Me, Please....I'm begging you.... I feel so Cold, and yet I appear to be so Warm, Hopeful.... Where did you hide the Old me? Please, just tell me this....Because I don't think I can live anymore with what I've become.... I can't even recognize myself anymore.... How Long have a been this way? How long have a been Falling, dying, Fading Away from the Light? Tell me this, Please....Are you finally Happy? Are you Proud of the Monster you've become? I used to look up to you....I'm glad I'm not such a Fool anymore...." I have never really confronted them, because I am afraid to Voice my Opinions Outloud, to Face them....Especially when I know that I'm just as Bad as them, if not Worse.... And so I remain Silent and Indifferent....and I slowly die from all my Concealed Pain....

  •  I dont know what I would say since thats a pretty long list of haters. I think I would listen to what they had to say and find out why they hate me so much. I am woman enough to say  "Im sorry" and to admit my mistakes. I know Im not perfect.  But I want to forgive because it sucks carrying all of this anger and hatred around and I need some closure in order to do that. Unfortunately, the people who hurt me avoid me like the plague which I also dont get. 
    Guilt is a bitch, apparently.

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