s y l v i a ([info]wildorchids) wrote,
@ 2004-11-08 18:45:00
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Current mood: ecstatic

Sunday Nov 7th - Best day of my life
... He proposed! I said yes! We're engaged! :)


As some of you already know, he proposed in an 'outrageous display of geekiness'. I guess I really didn't expect it any other way, though I envisioned a timed math test, or a puzzle, or a computer program I've to write to prove that I am worthy. :)

During the week, I suspected that instead of going in to work, Ethan drove home... at least 3 times. ("Home" is 2 hours away, that's 4 hours round trip!) Signs include a missing car, inability to read my e-mails on demand, and the sound of whirring engine when I call him. (Edit: Later I confirmed those trips, the jeweller said he'd sit in a corner and stare at rocks for hours, comparing them meticulously.) And he may be a dedicated worker, but forgoing Lauren and Will's post-wedding celebrations on Saturday night to put in an extra hour of work is questionable. He claimed he was working on "something cool", new and exciting at work... maybe he'll show me a demo soon.

On Sunday, we were going to celebrate our 2-yr anniversary. That morning, I got ready for a beautiful, sunny, picnicky day at Stone Villa. When I called Ethan, he said he'd like us to stop by his office to print out directions, and pick up the camera since he left it there the night before. So I waited for him to pick me up; when I stepped into the car, I was greeted with a single stalk of red rose. Very sweet. (He was also wearing the shirt we got in Singapore.)

We drove to Newell-Simon and went to his lab - he suggested that I look up the directions and print them while he sets up the "really neat" demo he wanted to show me, since we were there anyway. I said sure - then I noticed 2 AIBOs, Dinohyus and TK421, on his desk. Usually he only works with TK421. I also noticed the camera perched on his tripod... I thought about disassembling it so we could take it with us, but he reached over and turned it on. Next thing I knew, he was down on one knee in front of me, holding a ring box.

Ethan: "Will you marry me?"
Me: (looks at ring box... notices it's empty)
Ethan: (confused) "What... !" (turns to the dogs) "Okay now, which one of you took it?"
Dinohyus, TK421: (shakes head)
Ethan: "It's gotta be one of you! You're the only ones left alone with it. Now spit it out! Who did it? Was it you?" (points finger at Dinohyus)
Dinohyus: (shakes head)
Ethan: "Then it must be you!" (points finger at TK421)
TK421: (shakes head)
Ethan: "You can't fool me, one of you must be lying!" (Both dogs start 'running', but they're on their stands, they don't get anywhere) "A-ha! You can't run away! I know you saw who did it! Now tell me, who took the ring?"
Dinohyus: (lowers head and whimpers, then points paw at a far corner of the room)

I turned around and saw another AIBO, Laika, hiding behind a chair across the room - it started running away! Ethan walked over and grabbed it by its back; I saw something shiny in its mouth. He shook Laika, threatening it to let go of whatever was in its mouth, Laika flailed and yelped. Finally, it opened its mouth and dropped a shiny key into my hand. "It's for the filing cabinet," Ethan said. I couldn't stop laughing, loving how appropriate his method of proposal was. I unlocked the filing cabinet... opened the top drawer - nothing in there (he said "The dogs probably can't reach that high")... opened the bottom drawer, and there laid a beautiful spray of a dozen long-stemmed red roses, and a ring tied to the bouquet with red ribbon. It was GORGEOUS!... more than I could ever ask for. At first I was afraid that the ring wouldn't fit, but when I finally put it on, it fit perfectly. So shiny!! I cried. He held me and asked, "Will you? Really really?" and for a moment his eyes were red too. ;) (He doesn't like to admit it though!) Thanks to his camera, we've video footage of the whole skit. (Sneaky!)

The rest of the day was fantastic. We went to Stone Villa, tasted and bought a few bottles of wine, chatted with the folks (we knew the proprietors decently), strolled along the lake, pier and horse ranch, then drove back as the sun was setting. Then we went back to his apartment where I gave him his surprise gift - a Scharffen Berger chocolate bar! Or so he thought... I told him to open it, he turned it over and then he saw the pre-order receipt for Halo 2, Limited Edition, that I taped to the back. That made him very, very happy. :) For dinner we went to Monterey Bay Fish Grotto atop Mount Washington as planned, and we got lucky with a window seat. Clam chowder, fruity fish and dessert - sugar-coated strawberries and Grand Marnier cream in giant martini glasses. After dinner we came back to my apartment and watched Around the World in 80 Days with my housemates for a low-key end to the day. Then I sent out e-mail announcements. :)

[info]dkellis, he meant to ask for your blessing beforehand. He left you voicemail. :)



Bling! So pretty. Hard to get used to it...


I can't stop smiling


Where we had dinner


View from restaurant window


The date of the big day is yet to be determined. We're working on it. Meanwhile, Ethan wants to host a 'housewarming'/Christmas/engagement party next month. If you're in the area, you'll be hearing from us!


Ethan's now counting down the hours to when he'll get his brand spankin' new Halo 2. T-minus 4 hours!



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[info]jcipa
2004-11-08 05:42 pm UTC (link)
I'm so happy for you! Congratulations!

Ethan is one lucky guy! ;)

Luv ya! (and if there ever was an occasion that called for extensive overuse of exclamation points...)

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 05:59 pm UTC

[info]cedist
2004-11-08 06:12 pm UTC (link)
COngratulations! Happy for you!

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 08:41 pm UTC

[info]krazymazy
2004-11-08 06:40 pm UTC (link)
Oh my gosh! AHH!! How cute! Congrats and HEEE!!!!

P.S. My brother is also counting the hours until he can pick-up his pre-ordered copy of Halo 2. :-D

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 02:13 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]krazymazy, 2004-11-13 04:47 pm UTC

[info]yunicorner
2004-11-08 07:03 pm UTC (link)
oh wow that was so creative!! can i borrow those dogs? ;) congrats again! i like the bling. :D

you must come over to do a pinning circle! we haven't done a super one in so long and i'm itching to see one before i graduate. also would you mind if i shared your story to the sisterhood?

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 08:29 pm UTC

[info]bride
2004-11-08 07:09 pm UTC (link)
CONGRATULATIONS!! =D =D

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 07:47 pm UTC

[info]djhousman
2004-11-08 07:12 pm UTC (link)
Congrats :)
All this time I thought I needed a club and some sort of cage to claim a mate, when all it takes is robots. The times, they are a changin'.
Name your first born after me!

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(no subject) - [info]djhousman, 2004-11-08 07:13 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 07:46 pm UTC

[info]_explodingheart
2004-11-08 07:35 pm UTC (link)
wow, that is amazing!!!

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[info]lazerchik
2004-11-08 08:13 pm UTC (link)
congratulations!!!!!

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 08:32 pm UTC

[info]_explodingheart
2004-11-08 08:28 pm UTC (link)
how long have you guys been dating anyway? if you don't mind me asking? i'm just curious how long it took him to cave in and marry you! hehe =D.

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 08:31 pm UTC

[info]fws
2004-11-08 08:39 pm UTC (link)
Congratulations! Wow, nerdy proposals are the best. You might appreciate these online proposals: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Online_proposal

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 11:30 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]fws, 2004-11-09 02:08 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 02:14 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]skydiamonde, 2004-11-09 11:25 am UTC
WOW
[info]eadwine
2004-11-08 08:55 pm UTC (link)
CONGRATS U!!!!!!!!!

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Re: WOW - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 02:06 am UTC

[info]astropup
2004-11-08 09:09 pm UTC (link)
oh my gawd that is so great!! Congratulations dahling! *hugz*

Hey now show us that proposal video!!! I wanna get a laugh outta it! :P

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 11:32 pm UTC

[info]paintedmarbles
2004-11-08 09:12 pm UTC (link)
congratulations to my enormous!!!

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 11:34 pm UTC

[info]hotshotss
2004-11-08 10:06 pm UTC (link)
congrats!
(do i get to visit over thanksgiving..? =P )

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 11:36 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]hotshotss, 2004-11-09 07:03 am UTC

[info]dkellis
2004-11-08 10:08 pm UTC (link)
Congrats. (I didn't hear the phone ring.) I'm not sure why he wanted to ask for my blessing. What was I going to say, no? He's the man who's going to get Halo 2. +5 Cool.

Tell Ethan to tell me how Halo 2 is like. Especially the story. (Spoilers okay, and in fact requested.)

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[info]vaderstg
2004-11-08 10:58 pm UTC (link)
wow.
congrats. Thats an amazing story :)

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[info]dr4b
2004-11-08 11:16 pm UTC (link)
oh wow!

I don't know you, but Ethan was one of my students at governor's school back in '97 and this is just so totally him that it brings a huge smile to my face. congratulations to both of you, that's awesome :)

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 11:39 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 11:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]skydiamonde, 2004-11-09 10:52 am UTC

[info]bossanoville
2004-11-08 11:26 pm UTC (link)
wow congratulations! Hello bling bling ;) It's a beautiful proposal

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-08 11:45 pm UTC

[info]struiling
2004-11-09 02:46 am UTC (link)
=D

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Congratulations!!
(Anonymous)
2004-11-09 05:59 am UTC (link)
Wow, I feel really old since my little little is getting married.

I couldn't be happier for you.

-Susan (your Big Big)

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Re: Congratulations!! - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 08:40 pm UTC
Re: Congratulations!! - (Anonymous), 2004-11-14 11:41 am UTC

[info]littlepurple
2004-11-09 09:17 am UTC (link)
CONGRATS!!

You both rock, and are clearly so right for each other.
Best of wishes for both of you!!!

(((((HUGZ)))))

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 08:39 pm UTC
CONGRATULATIONS!
[info]aerophilic
2004-11-09 06:59 pm UTC (link)
Syvlia, I couldn't hope for more for you!!!! =) (Plus I give Ethan major props for the robots ;-)). If he ever posts it somewhere online, I will MAKE SURE it gets slashdotted! Congrats again! I still have a grin on my face =)

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Re: CONGRATULATIONS! - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 08:38 pm UTC
yayness to u!!
[info]anastasiana
2004-11-09 07:46 pm UTC (link)
auwww.. so sweet!! congrats dearie!!!! *smiles*

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Re: yayness to u!! - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 08:36 pm UTC
wowser, penny!
[info]newyorkpoet
2004-11-09 08:13 pm UTC (link)
first it was kkeb, now i have to learn "here comes the bride!" hmmmmm.... *strums*

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Re: wowser, penny! - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 08:36 pm UTC

[info]ex_saldana781
2004-11-09 09:10 pm UTC (link)
I dont even know you guys, but I'm utterly in love with ya both!

That's amazing.

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(no subject) - [info]wildorchids, 2004-11-09 10:32 pm UTC

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