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  • Oct. 9th, 2005 at 8:24 PM
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Unfortunately I don't have time to talk about my prolonged labor and near-death experience. Suffice to say that the last week has been unbelievable. For some details, you can see the posts in [info]patrissimo and [info]babybabble, I'd like to send love & thanks to Patri, Dawn, Sandy (the Doula), and Rob & Anna. Patri & Dawn in particular, I might not be alive if they hadn't been here.

I had a little break last night when I was only breastfeeding every 3-4 hours and was hopeful that I'd be able to start making calls and taking visitors, but this morning I spoke w/ the lactation therapist and she would like me to be pumping every 2-3 hours. Pumping takes about half an hour, plus eating, trying to get a little bit of sleep, and trying to visit the baby, between all of that I am occupied every minute. My mom is coming tomorrow, as a former nurse it will be very helpful to have some knowledgeable around to help. I'm not ready to accept help from other people yet, but hopefully soon.

The baby seems to be doing well, although its very scary having the nurses handle him and picking him up w/ all the cords and everything. We're very happy with how responsive he is, I think unusually so for a preemie. He really loves being held, and last night when Patri was reading Harry Potter to him, he cried when Patri stopped, and calmed down again when he started up, clearly enjoyed it. We tapered off the reading.

I'll talk more when I have time, which may be days.

Comments

[info]tigresa wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 03:32 am (UTC)
It's wonderful to hear from you, even briefly! Thank you for taking the time to update. Hugs & love, I hope things go well -- it sounds like they are so far.
[info]radiantsun wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 05:17 pm (UTC)
Ditto.
[info]foolmonkey wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 03:35 am (UTC)
Keep it up, sweetheart. I'm thinking about the three of you lots and lots.
[info]jhogan wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 04:01 am (UTC)
I somehow missed the near-death experience in the recent posts. Was this the post-birth bleeding? That's really scary, I had no idea it was that serious. I'm really glad you're all right.

It's heartening to hear how well Tovar seems to be doing.

Hang in there. It is lucky you have your husband to take care of you and keep all your friends up to date! Take care.
[info]patrissimo wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 11:50 am (UTC)
yeah, the postpartum bleeding. I think near-death experience might be overstating things a tiny bit, but it was certainly serious (partly because the nurses didn't seem to take it seriously enough).
[info]zuleikhajami wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 04:15 am (UTC)
It's so good to hear from you! You have all my thoughts and love.
[info]tinkerbell_mk wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 05:06 am (UTC)
more thoughts and love
[info]maerdi wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 05:17 am (UTC)
Yay! Patri has been exceptional about updating, but it is good to hear your voice. Be well.
[info]neurogirl wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 05:30 am (UTC)
Ditto!
[info]anahas wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 05:31 am (UTC)
It's so nice to hear from you. We've been thinking about you and sending you lots of good thoughts. I understand the part about being too busy to accept any help right now. But when you are ready I'm here and willing to do anything...make food, drive, clean, or anything else you would want.
[info]redaly wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 06:03 am (UTC)
i'm so glad you're feeling better now (and wow, patri didn't make it sound quite that scary in his posts), and it's wonderful that tovar's doing so well and is so responsive. don't you worry about updating or having visitors or anything other than feeling better and spending time with the baby! i'm sending you both lots and lots of positive thoughts
[info]magicpacket wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 06:53 am (UTC)
indeed!
[info]is2disney wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 07:42 am (UTC)
I've been thinking of you three a lot. It's good to hear from you.
[info]xatharine wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 04:45 pm (UTC)
It's so good to hear from you and hear more and more good news about you and Tovar. Congratulations, mom!
[info]175560 wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 05:05 pm (UTC)
Yay! If mommy can make an LJ post, then mommy must be doing all right!
Go [info]choiceful! Yeah! =)

My thoughts have been with you and [info]patrissimo quite a lot over the last few days. Congrats on a healthy preemie!
[info]radiantsun wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 05:17 pm (UTC)
same
[info]lasofia wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 06:16 pm (UTC)
Wow. What a story. Take good care of yourself. It sounds like Tovar is doing really well - I know two babies born about as early who are thriving now.
[info]autumnflames wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 07:24 pm (UTC)
So good to hear that you've pulled through the worst of it. My thoughts continue to be with you.
[info]sunyata__ wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 08:01 pm (UTC)
Wow. What an intense time. Thank you for updating us, and hang in there, beautiful! You're in so very many of my thoughts.
[info]solractwin wrote:
Oct. 10th, 2005 08:24 pm (UTC)
I've been thinking about you guys and I'm glad to hear things are okay.

Welcome to the world Tovar!

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