Lots

  • Aug. 12th, 2008 at 10:10 AM
pink ball
I has new vehicle:

2003 Saturn Vue, in verrry good condition.  Actually, Dad has new vehicle, I only drive it.

House, moved in 3 separate households, all at least 4 hours away, and all are mostly unpacked.

Kitty, arriving from Tacoma with Gwen this evening. YAYYY!

Boyfriend is in job interview that is close to a done deal right now!

We leave thursday a.m. for Houston to do training with Dad and pick him up, returning saturday.

Pile-o-paperwork is still not as handled as I would like, but I have been busy!

In retrospect:  I arrived in Austin on May 22nd.  I has job, house, car, caregivers for Dad lined up, doctors appointments in order, and good supportive folks around me.  I feel like I have been slacking a lot, but apparently not.

Whew!

For XT

  • Jul. 21st, 2008 at 12:02 AM
kitty
Hilary, thanks for posting this many months ago.

In honor of Dr Horrible:



Mrrr, men in skirts just make me happy!

Wahooey!

  • Jul. 14th, 2008 at 1:59 PM
pandafart
My Boyfriend is ON HIS WAY!

Finally, some good news. I will get to kiss and cuddle him in about 24 hours, YAYYY!

And I find out a solid answer on the house around 6 pm this evening! I am pretty sure it's a done deal, but a confirmation sure is nice.

That only leaves:
Move myself, John, & Draque (John's 16-yr old son) to new house
Move RV to new house
Fly Toki (cat) from Seattle to here & move into new house
Move Dad's stuff from Galveston to new house
Furnish whatever else we need from wherever we can get
Acquire vehicle Dad can get in & out of
Move Dad from Houston to new house
and several other pages of things that are not interesting.

I literally had to step outside of the office to jump up and down on the sidewalk and whoop like a freak! Ahhh, things are finally going, I thought i might be stuck forever.

*Big sigh*

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Life is 'splodey...

  • Jul. 11th, 2008 at 12:17 PM
kitty
Hi all. I am currently living in Austin (yay!), waiting to hear about a rental house, waiting for my boyfriend to get here, waiting to see how Dad progresses, waiting for just about everything really. I'll update thoroughly at some point soon, but currently just slowly reappearing in the LJ world.

Quiz: The Attachment Style Test

  • Jul. 11th, 2008 at 12:16 PM
kitty

Your result for The Attachment Style Test...

The Cuddleslut


You're mostly secure, but sometimes you need a little extra reassurance to make it through the tough times. You are usually affectionate and sweet, and you find it easy to fall in love. An encouraging word from a crush or a loved one can motivate you for weeks.



Fictional character with whom you might identify: Kaylee (Firefly/Serenity), Hiro Nakamura (Heroes)



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Other Attachment Types:
Secure: The Unicorn | The Cuddleslut | The Free Agent
Preoccupied: The Cling Wrap | The Squid | The Insect
Fearful: The Doormat | The Leper | The Exile
Dismissing: The Hermit | The Stone | The Player
Confused: The Waffler

Take The Attachment Style Test at HelloQuizzy



I'm like Kaylee? That's awesome!
kitty
My Dad had a massive stroke in his home in Bayou Vista (near Galveston) on March 4th or so. I am the only child, and he never remarried, so I am his Power of Attorney. I went to Galveston at that time to handle business stuff and be with him, and stayed for a week. He was transferred to Rehab in Houston about a week later. I have since been to Houston to visit again, last week. He is making good progress, but he is going to need some help, and as I left last week, I felt like I was abandoning him. I did not like it one bit.

So, I am moving to Austin as soon as I can to get close to Dad. "As soon as I can" means in about a coupla months, I suspect. My boyfriend, his 15 year-old son, our cat, and our plants are coming with me in the RV. I am gonna try to move a month or so before them so's I can secure house and job for all, then fly back up & drive RV down.

I need jobs: architecture-ish CAD-type stuff for me, a landscape architect job for John (that's tha boyfriend). We both are able to do contract work, or freelance. I also need a housing arrangement: 3 bedroom 2 bath with yard is preferable, but smaller at first works too. Pre-move, I need a place to crash while I hunt jobs and house down. Many of you have offered me crash place, and I very well may be calling or IM-ing you soon.

We are looking at starting a landscape/container house design/build firm after we get settled some.

Anyone who has info on job leads, contacts, housing, whatever, please let me know.

FYI, I am very VERY glad to be headed back home, I've missed y'all terribly.

Lub,
S

My Boys

  • Jan. 13th, 2008 at 6:00 PM
kitty
Meet Toki Wartooth:
Toki 1


toki 2



He's my other new boy.  The original new boy is John:

John picked out Toki, he made a beeline straight for the fluffiest thing in the Fort Collins Cat Rescue shelter.  I was a bit skeptical about getting a persian/himalayan poofta of a cat, but he has turned out to be about perfect.  He's 1 1/2 years old, and his owner died, so he has never really been in a bad situation.  Thus far, no cat-box misses, no furniture clawing, eating well, loves to be brushed, and adores being loved on, but will not bug the hell out of us about it.





I love missing y'all

  • Nov. 22nd, 2007 at 8:45 PM
kitty
I read this lj post from [info]xoxoxtc and I just started crying.  XT, what a wise woman you are, to depart for a possibly daunting new life in an oasis of friendly community.  I am so homesick right now, and there is not a damned thing I can do to get home any faster than I already am.  When I get sad, when I get frustrated, I start to look for reasons that this painful piece of my experience, this seemingly useless piece of life I might prefer to skip, might be important to my bigger picture.  This is.  I do realize that homesick is, at the heart of it, under the owwies, an indication of being blessed.  I am so thankful that I have a home, family and community that I miss so dearly.   I am so thankful that I have been afforded the opportunity to more fully understand how important my people are to my spirit, and how much I really need to be physically around y'all.  

Lovely Denver peeps, don't think that I don't love you, I just am not near enough to immerse myself into your lives on a regular enough basis  I miss y'all too.

Update: I just got a call from my daddy, he misses me and is thrilled that I have gotten the full understanding of what being from Texas, the part of it that is in your bones, is about :)

Oh, and our menu:
Roasted Pheasant
Cornbread Dressing
Oven-roasted sweet potatoes and caramelized onions with parmesan & rosemary
brussel sprouts with bacon and garlic
homemade rosemary crescent rolls
Much Nog.

Update update: I underestimated the awesomeness that fine dining in this house.  J & A & I just prepared and ate the tastiest thanksgiving dinner I think I've ever had.  And the wine & champagne were paired fabulously.  And it's been a great day, a Thanksgiving I will be happy to look fondly upon.  I am lucky to have the people I have here too.  Surely one of you brilliant people I know will have a teleporter ready soon so we can all be everywhere at once, yes?  No?... grumumble.

Happy Thanksgiving y'all!

Happy Birthday

  • Nov. 22nd, 2007 at 5:50 PM
pink ball
Dearest [info]incysor,

I hope your birthday is a good'un! 

Love,
S

Phone interview #1

  • Nov. 15th, 2007 at 10:04 AM
kitty
Went well.  I have a face-to-face interview monday at 8:30 am.  Back to the land of people who wake up before 9 am, uncivilized!

M'kay, that's better

  • Nov. 14th, 2007 at 4:07 PM
kitty
I have a phone interview for a CAD job tomorrow, with a real company that pays real wages.  I am ready to get back to the land of the real job!

Job karma is headed up!

And congrats Steph.  I concur, XT, yer next!

SLC Mayor speaks out

  • Nov. 14th, 2007 at 1:58 PM
kitty
from [info]tatianastarr

His home page is: http://www.slcgov.com/mayor/

If you want to see where he placed italics for emphasis, go to
http://www.slcgov.com/mayor/speeches/2007%20Speeches/102507octoberdemonstration.pdf


Salt Lake City Mayor says "We won't take it anymore!"

October 27, 2007 City & County Building Salt Lake City, Utah

Address by Mayor Ross C. "Rocky" Anderson

Today, as we come together once again in this great city, we raise our voices in unison to say to President Bush, to Vice President Cheney, to other members of the Bush Administration (past and present), to a majority of Congress, including Utah's entire congressional delegation, and to much of the mainstream media: "You have failed us miserably and we won't take it any more."

"While we had every reason to expect far more of you, you have been pompous, greedy, cruel, and incompetent as you have led this great nation to a moral, military, and national security abyss."

"You have breached trust with the American people in the most egregious ways. You have utterly failed in the performance of your jobs. You have undermined our Constitution, permitted the violation of the most fundamental treaty obligations, and betrayed the rule of law."

"You have engaged in, or permitted, heinous human rights abuses of the sort never before countenanced in our nation's history as a matter of official policy. You have sent American men and women to kill and be killed on the basis of lies, on the basis of shifting justifications, without competent leadership, and without even a coherent plan for this monumental blunder."

"We are here to tell you: We won't take it any more!"

"You have acted in direct contravention of values that we, as Americans who love our country, hold dear. You have deceived us in the most cynical, outrageous ways. You have undermined, or allowed the undermining of, our constitutional system of checks and balances among the three presumed co-equal branches of government. You have helped lead our nation to the brink of fascism, of a dictatorship contemptuous of our nation's treaty obligations, federal statutory law, our Constitution, and the rule of law."

"Because of you, and because of your jingoistic false 'patriotism,' our world is far more dangerous, our nation is far more despised, and the threat of terrorism is far greater than ever before.

It has been absolutely astounding how you have committed the most horrendous acts, causing such needless tragedy in the lives of millions of people, yet you wear your so-called religion on your sleeves, asserting your God-is-on-my-side nonsense - when what you have done flies in the face of any religious or humanitarian tradition. Your hypocrisy is mind-boggling - and disgraceful. What part of "Thou shalt not kill" do you not understand? What part of the "Golden rule" do you not understand? What part of "be honest," "be responsible," and "be accountable" don't you understand? What part of "Blessed are the peacekeepers" do you not understand?

Because of you, hundreds of thousands of people have been killed, many thousands of people have suffered horrendous lifetime injuries, and millions have been run off from their homes. For the sake of our nation, for the sake of our children, and for the sake of our brothers and sisters around the world, we are morally compelled to say, as loudly as we can, 'We won't take it any more!' "

"As United States agents kidnap, disappear, and torture human beings around the world, you justify, you deceive, and you cover up. We find what you have done to men, women and children, and to the good name and reputation of the United States, so appalling, so unconscionable, and so outrageous as to compel us to call upon you to step aside and allow other men and women who are competent, true to our nation's values, and with high moral principles to stand in your places - for the good of our nation, for the good of our children, and for the good of our world."

In the case of the President and Vice President, this means impeachment and removal from office, without any further delay from a complacent, complicit Congress, the Democratic majority of which cares more about political gain in 2008 than it does about the vindication of our Constitution, the rule of law, and democratic accountability.

It means the election of people as President and Vice President who, unlike most of the presidential candidates from both major parties, have not aided and abetted in the perpetration of the illegal, tragic, devastating invasion and occupation of Iraq. And it means the election of people as President and Vice President who will commit to return our nation to the moral and strategic imperative of refraining from torturing human beings.

In the case of the majority of Congress, it means electing people who are diligent enough to learn the facts, including reading available National Intelligence Estimates, before voting to go to war. It means electing to Congress men and women who will jealously guard Congress's sole prerogative to declare war. It means electing to Congress men and women who will not submit like vapid lap dogs to presidential requests for blank checks to engage in so-called preemptive wars, for legislation permitting warrantless wiretapping of communications involving US citizens, and for dangerous, irresponsible, saber-rattling legislation like the recent Kyl- Lieberman amendment.

We must avoid the trap of focusing the blame solely upon President Bush and Vice-President Cheney. This is not just about a few people who have wronged our country - and the world. They were enabled by members of both parties in Congress, they were enabled by the pathetic mainstream news media, and, ultimately, they have been enabled by the American people - 40% of whom are so ill-informed they still think Iraq was behind the 9/11 attacks - a people who know and care more about baseball statistics and which drunken starlets are wearing underwear than they know and care about the atrocities being committed every single day in our name by a government for which we need to take responsibility.

As loyal Americans, without regard to political partisanship -- as veterans, as teachers, as religious leaders, as working men and women, as students, as professionals, as businesspeople, as public servants, as retirees, as people of all ages, races, ethnic origins, sexual orientations, and faiths -- we are here to say to the Bush administration, to the majority of Congress, and to the mainstream media: "You have violated your solemn responsibilities. You have undermined our democracy, spat upon our Constitution, and engaged in outrageous, despicable acts. You have brought our nation to a point of immorality, inhumanity, and illegality of immense, tragic, unprecedented proportions."

"But we will live up to our responsibilities as citizens, as brothers and sisters of those who have suffered as a result of the imperial bullying of the United States government, and as moral actors who must take a stand: And we will, and must, mean it when we say 'We won't take it any more.'"

If we want principled, courageous elected officials, we need to be principled, courageous, and tenacious ourselves. History has demonstrated that our elected officials are not the leaders - the leadership has to come from us. If we don't insist, if we don't persist, then we are not living up to our responsibilities as citizens in a democracy - and our responsibilities as moral human beings. If we remain silent, we signal to Congress and the Bush administration - and to candidates running for office - and to the world - that we support the status quo.

Silence is complicity. Only by standing up for what's right and never letting down can we say we are doing our part.

Our government, on the basis of a campaign we now know was entirely fraudulent, attacked and militarily occupied a nation that posed no danger to the United States. Our government, acting in our name, has caused immense, unjustified death and destruction.

It all started five years ago, yet where have we, the American people, been? At this point, we are responsible. We get together once in a while at demonstrations and complain about Bush and Cheney, about Congress, and about the pathetic news media. We point fingers and yell a lot. Then most people politely go away until another demonstration a few months later.

How many people can honestly say they have spent as much time learning about and opposing the outrages of the Bush administration as they have spent watching sports or mindless television programs during the past five years? Escapist, time-sapping sports and insipid entertainment have indeed become the opiate of the masses.

Why is this country so sound asleep? Why do we abide what is happening to our nation, to our Constitution, to the cause of peace and international law and order? Why are we not doing all in our power to put an end to this madness?

We should be in the streets regularly and students should be raising hell on our campuses. We should be making it clear in every way possible that apologies or convoluted, disingenuous explanations just don't cut it when presidential candidates and so many others voted to authorize George Bush and his neo-con buddies to send American men and women to attack and occupy Iraq.

Let's awaken, and wake up the country by committing here and now to do all each of us can to take our nation back. Let them hear us across the country, as we ask others to join us: "We won't take it any more!"

I implore you: Draw a line. Figure out exactly where your own moral breaking point is. How much will you put up with before you say "No more" and mean it?

I have drawn my line as a matter of simple personal morality: I cannot, and will not, support any candidate who has voted to fund the atrocities in Iraq. I cannot, and will not, support any candidate who will not commit to remove all US troops, as soon as possible, from Iraq. I cannot, and will not, support any candidate who has supported legislation that takes us one step closer to attacking Iran. I cannot, and will not, support any candidate who has not fought to stop the kidnapping, disappearances, and torture being carried on in our name.

If we expect our nation's elected officials to take us seriously, let us send a powerful message they cannot misunderstand. Let them know we really do have our moral breaking point. Let them know we have drawn a bright line. Let them know they cannot take our support for granted - that, regardless of their party and regardless of other political considerations, they will not have our support if they cannot provide, and have not provided,principled leadership.

The people of this nation may have been far too quiet for five years, but let us pledge that we won't let it go on one more day - that we will do all we can to put an end to the illegalities, the moral degradation, and the disintegration of our nation's reputation in the world.

Let us be unified in drawing the line - in declaring that we do have a moral breaking point. Let us insist, together, in supporting our troops and in gratitude for the freedoms for which our veterans gave so much, that we bring our troops home from Iraq, that we return our government to a constitutional democracy, and that we commit to honoring the fundamental principles of human rights.

In defense of our country, in defense of our Constitution, in defense of our shared values as Americans - and as moral human beings - we declare today that we will fight in every way possible to stop the insanity, stop the continued military occupation of Iraq, and stop the moral depravity reflected by the kidnapping, disappearing, and torture of people around the world.

Nov. 9th, 2007

  • 4:36 PM
kitty

1. Age at next birthday:
 



Now you...
1) answer questions and type into google image search
2) post pictures from first results page

Oct. 31st, 2007

  • 9:22 PM
kitty
Dear Santa,

For Christmas, I want a chihuahua puppy.  For all you naysayers, I know, a chihuahua is not an actual dog, it is somewhere between rodent and dog, but I am on board with that, I want a portable critter.  No, not accessory dog, but small enough to be content in an RV at times.  spacellama, yes, after all these years, I have come over to the small side.  I give you full permission to tease and taunt me.

So, as I was walking out of the Larimer County Correctional Facility, in my flame pants, mesh shirt, flamey sequin fur bra, and red leopard fur floor-length coat after a night of trying to sleep sitting up in a chair, I encountered a chick who was waiting for her boyfriend to be released. She had a 5-month old chihuahua who looked like a tiny Visla but with pointy ears.:

Also, kinda like this:
 
Her name was Lala. I want one. 
I got the information for the breeder, and I have been tempted to call, but I know now is not the right time to get a puppy.  Pout.  I will be couch-surfing some, and dog makes it much more complicated.  Also, current roomies are not so keen on critters.  Alas, I will hafta wait a while, but it's just more motivation to get my shit worked out, I suppose.

Burlesque for ME!

  • Oct. 6th, 2007 at 7:03 PM
playboy
Wahooey!

So I thought I would not be able to make the first EVER Texas Burlesque Festival in Austin that my friend Audrey is putting on, due to work schedule.  I got the new schedule today, and lo & behold, they only scheduled me for saturday day.  I got a friend to pick up my shift, jumped on Priceline.com, and got myself some airline tix.

Hells YEAH!  I'm getting in thursday, leaving sunday, and am UBER-excited to be making it for such SEXY AWESOMENESS!  Hope to see all of you that I can manage to encounter while there.  Dood, I am bouncing & grinning ear to ear, YAYYYY!

So, Houstonians that are up for seeing me and beautific burlesquiness, here is tha info: http://www.texasburlesquefest.com/

Love!  Bounce!  Wheeee!

Hahaha!

  • Sep. 30th, 2007 at 2:34 PM
kitty
from Craigslist:

An Open Letter to Bi-curious Drunk Girls


Date: 2007-08-26, 2:57PM CDT


Dear Bi-curious Drunk Girls,

I have something I need to get off my chest. While it's been fun, the kissing and making out and such, something's got to give. You see, I know the minute you start talking about how you "like girls, too", or "think about women a lot" that you're eventually going to ask me to kiss you. I don't mind this at all. In fact, I generally enjoy it. Where I start having a problem is when I try to decide just how drunk you are.

I mean, I've been there, drunk that is. And I've been taken advantage of a time or two in that inebriated state. And while I'll be the first to admit I can be a real asshole at times, I try not to take advantage of other people. I consider nailing a girl who's had a few too many "taking advantage". Even if she acts like that's what she wants. Even if she drunk dials me an hour later. You know you didn't leave anything in my car.

I'm just asking for a little help here. So today, while you're relatively sober, this is what I want you to do:

Give me written permission.

That's right, put it on paper. Say "I (fill in the blank), being of sound and sober mind, give permission to the next hot dyke I hit on to nail me soundly. Sincerely, (fill in the blank again)." Then make sure you take it with you the next time you head out to get shit-faced.

It's that simple.

It will make me feel better about doing what I want to do anyway, which is you.

Sincerely,

An ethical, but sexually frustrated queer

I LoveErin

  • Sep. 26th, 2007 at 10:12 PM
kitty
Erin's words of wisdom:

"Nobody likes a cold cooter, you need to keep it warm, like cookies."

"It's always good to think of genitalia as baked goods."\

BTW, Erin'sspacebardoesn'twork.

Adventures at TTITD

  • Sep. 10th, 2007 at 1:45 PM
kitty
Hi all,

I'm back from Burningman!  It was amazing and wonderful and exhausting and arduous, and a great pivotal event that reminded me that it's time to start heading elsewhere now, with a final(ish) destination of Austin.

Soonish plans alert:  Between now and whenever I save enough money and get plans together to move for realz, I will hopefully be attending the Tx Burlesque Festival in Austin the weekend of oct. 13, hitting Seattle/Tacoma the oct. 19th weekend for my Mom's 60th birthday, and spending a glorious New Years in L.A. at Twigsville.

So back to TTITD.  I drove my RV, and she has earned the new nickname of Princess, with Bitch thrown in occasionally.  She was pretty bitchy getting there, but was fantastic out there, I was so proud!  Air conditioning, plumbing, refrigerator, real beds, I felt pretty spoiled and was real okay with it.  I am also more motivated to put a little more love and attention into Princess Bitch Spacedillo, I can see a relationship between taking care of her and taking care of myself.  She earned my affection and respect.   I hung out at the DFTs and Gigsville, with regular outtings on the Vroom Vroom Room, Katie's art car.  I made one jaunt out onto the playa on bike, one on foot, and didn't even manage to see much of the esplanade, missed Center Camp entirely.  I guess I have learned the power of the G-spot!   I met quite a few cool new people, reconnected in wonderful ways with friends, deepened some relationships, and, as always, got a good healthy dose of what I needed.  It was good.  I don't need to go back for a while.  Next event: Flipside '08!

Impressions:
Dear Jeebus, it was so big!  Last time I was there was '04, and wow, it has GROWN.  The scale just blew me away!  It was overwhelming, but at the same time, very comforting.  There was no possible way to wrap my head around it, much less experience it all, so I didn't even pretend to try, I just did what I encountered along my path as opportunity.  I didn't even unpack half of my costumes, and the pink furry chaps remain unplayafied.  My current thought on that is "Yay, less crap to clean!"

Wow, I miss my phavorite phreaks, it's time to get home.

Thank Jeebus I didn't overextend myself as extremely as I could have.  I watched my friends total themselves on teardown on monday & tuesday, and provided backup support in the form of food, a/c, bed, comfortable crash-space.  I still managed to get a bladder infection on the way home, and to be covered from head to toe in scratches & bruises.  I'm not up for that now.  I'm not sure if I'll ever be up for it like that again.  I may be past the point of that much output for that kind of reward.  I am learning much about my own limits and boundaries, about the difference between able to do something and worthwhile to do.  I bought into the image of hard-core for a while, and I think I did that, but I don't need to prove that to myself or anyone else right now.  If I find something that inspires me to push myself like that again, then I'll test out my ability to set boundaries for myself and do within them, but for now, I think I'll be just fine being more decorative, less functional.

Wow, I have a serious disconnect between my body and my Self.  I have been extremely clumsy, with very poor awareness of where my body is in space, in relation to objects.  Somewhere in the last few months, I just made the decision to push myself however I had to to get what i needed to get done done, regardless of what my body said.  It became very apparent that it worked better than I imagined it could have as I scraped and bunged my way through numerous RV repairs (and tumbles off art cars).  No serious injuries, but it's time to take steps to handle this before it gets to that point.  Time for some yoga and pilates methinks, some body-scanning meditation, any other suggestions out there?

I don't like flakes.  "Flaky" is a catch-all get-out-of-responsibility-free description.  Part of the reason I don't like it methinks is because I tend to be flaky sometimes myself.  I have been working hard on changing that in myself, not overcommitting to things I hope I'll want to or be able to do when the time comes to do them.  Commitment, obligation, intent, guilt, these are all pretty big and up for me right now, and i had a few situations in which to learn some stuff.  I'm still digesting on that.  In that stuff: saying yes when you mean no, perhaps, or maybe.  I use committing to big things as a motivator, and it's not one that is working for me right now.  Time to explore what does work as a positive motivator for me.  Guilting myself to do stuff because I said I would, then wearing myself out to do it is hard on me, turns supposed to be fun into not.  Time to find a better way.

Did I mention that I miss my people?

I'm sure there's lots more ruminating & belly-button-gazing I will do, but not today, I have a nap scheduled.  Sleep is gooood.

Love you allll,
S

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