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I pick up a man, right off the streets.

Let me explain.

About 3 months ago, I decided to go to my favorite flee market. I was walking towards the entrance gate when I spotted this man who look filthy. He was skin and bone and looked so very sad. I walked up to him, ready to give him some spare change. I asked him if he was feeling ok and he looked at me with the saddest eyes I’ve ever seen and replied that he was doing fine. I asked him if he would accept a few of my quarters and he said that he would.

We got into a deep conversation. (I will not share with you the personal things he told me about his life.) I asked him many questions and then I asked where he lived. He told me he was homeless. I asked him where he slept. He said he slept wherever he could, mostly under the freeway bridges. I asked him if he was hungry. He said yes.

I grabbed his hand and pulled him towards me. I lead him towards my car and we drove off to my house.

I took him to my kitchen and fixed him a big breakfast. I really liked this man. Mickey and Jewely, my toy poodles liked him very much, too. I asked him how old he was and he told me he was 64 yrs old. I couldn’t believe it because he looked much older.

He’s been living with me ever since. I gave him one of my bedrooms and bought him some really nice cloths from my favorite second hand thrift shop.

I'm not afraid at night anymore, my house is immaculate, my yard is clean, all of my indoor and outdoor dogs are fed and bathed once a week, Porky and Honey Bunny are feed and cleaned and all my cats are fed. Laundry is washed and ironed and he CAN COOK! He minds his on business and I mind mine. He has gained a few pounds and looks much healthier. He is as happy as can be, and so am I. I call him "Abuelito", which means "Grandpa" He calls me "Mi Reina", which means "My Queen".

Yes, it’s really nice having a man around the house and what makes it even more magnificent is that there is absolutely NO SEX!


And here is the web page I've created with
pictures of this wonderful old man who so
abruptly came into my life:


Pictures Of My Grandpa

Grandpa's Bedroom Pictures

UPDATES: GRANDPA'S 2ND OPERATION

JOIN the U.S. Army
Los Benificios del U.S. Army
JOIN The NRA
"The Right Of The People To Keep and
Bear Arms, Shall Not Be infringed."

Comments

[info]alen wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 12:39 am (UTC)
Holy shit! That is amazing :) Well done
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:51 am (UTC)
Yes, it is amazing, I keep pinching myself in hopes that it wasn't just a dream. He's the kindest, most wonderful person in this world.
[info]poetpaladin wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 12:51 am (UTC)
You are AWESOME! I loved reading this story.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:39 am (UTC)
Thank you poetpaladin. This man is the awesome one. He's one of a kind, the Lord broke the mold right after He made him. I'm so lucky I found him!
[info]poetpaladin wrote:
Jul. 30th, 2005 04:50 pm (UTC)
"Porky and Honey Bunny"

Those are funny and cute names. Ahaha. :)


What are they? Bunnies?
[info]garzan wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 01:02 am (UTC)
You've done a good thing. Kudos to you. (and nice to hear from you too.)
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 03:52 am (UTC)
Thank you my dear garzan. It makes me very happy to find that you're glad to hear from me again. It's always nice to hear from you, too.
[info]garzan wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 03:57 pm (UTC)
You know if I had an actual email address for you, you'd probably hear from me more often. ;)
[info]jerris_darkrun_ wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 01:11 am (UTC)
Good to see a post from you.

And you did good, too, apparently!!
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:42 am (UTC)
Thank you. Yes, it had been a while since I'd posted.

I do believe I hit the jackpot when I found this man!
[info]ignunce wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 01:25 am (UTC)
good for you, you both are blessed it seems.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:40 am (UTC)
Thanks Huggy Bear, I need all the blessing I can get.

I'm so glad to see you, I thought I'd lost you there for a while!
[info]ignunce wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 12:33 pm (UTC)
never!
[info]shadowy_poet wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 01:29 am (UTC)
Good to see you post again. =)

It can be great to have some help around the house and some companionship. Looks like the two of you have good relationship.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:47 am (UTC)
Thank you, it's good to be back on earth again.

This man never stops, I have to get after him to stop working so much. Unlike myself, he's a perfectionist. Everything must be clean and in its place. I'm so lucky, soooo very lucky to have found him and brought him into my life.
[info]splitpeasoup wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 01:29 am (UTC)
Wow, that is quite something. You're a really good person.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:49 am (UTC)
Thank you, but he's the one who is so very good a person.
[info]splitpeasoup wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 06:15 am (UTC)
Well, both of you then!
[info]pggmilltn wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 03:13 am (UTC)
That was a very...well, nice is too weak a term to use, but I cant think of a better one at the time. That was a very nice thing of you to do.

I wonder what conditions lead to his being homeless, though I typically am curious about things regardless of whether or not I should be curious about them.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:19 pm (UTC)
Thank you.

The homeless have their story, also, for those who are willing to take the time to ask and listen. They don't want to be homeless, but tragedy sometimes strikes and there's nothing they can do about it, unless someone is willing to try and help.

Some are illegally in this country, some are not. It really doesn't matter because the fact remains, that they are homeless and suffering.
[info]quepid wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:19 am (UTC)
That is a most charitable act.

It is truly comforting to know that people like you exist.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:29 pm (UTC)
This wonderful old man has taken me under his wing. When I lost my mom this year, I started going through some very unbearable times.

I do believe he's an angel, sent to me from God. I'm not afraid at night anymore, and he's the reason why most of those fear have vanished.
[info]spookydream wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 05:56 am (UTC)
Wow! You are a wonderful person. It made my heart warm to read that.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 03:44 am (UTC)
Thank you.

It also warms my heart to know for a fact that I hit the jackpot when I found him. He feels safe now, just as I do.
[info]justgoto wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 07:36 am (UTC)
pick up a man, right off the streets
That was very kind of you, as well as brave.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:36 pm (UTC)
Re: pick up a man, right off the streets
Thank you.

The eyes are the mirrors of the soul. When I looked into his eyes, I saw that this was a good, kind, desperate man. Now I can see that I was just as desperate as he was.
[info]sonoitamemories wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 09:49 am (UTC)
Very touching.... good for you.... I send you my best wishes always,

Mickey
[info]sonoitamemories wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 01:00 pm (UTC)
I did that once... it's so sweet of you to do that for him. I know that only good can come from this... be well always...

Mickey
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 12:41 am (UTC)
He took a chance on me, just as I did on him. He has made my life much easier and I honestly think of him as family.

I had made a graphic for your Don Quixote de La Mancha site, right before my mom pasted away. I have it someplace and just as soon as I find it, I'll send it to you.

Hugs my friend!
[info]sonoitamemories wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 10:33 am (UTC)
You did send it to me. And I have it on my web site. It looks great. Thanks so much. :) You made a graphic for Cervantes with the moon list. If you are talking about another graphic that would be lovely. I hope you are doing well and having a great weekend. I send you loads of love and hugs always...

Mickey
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 04:20 pm (UTC)
No, this is another one and I think you'll like it even more. I believe it was of Sancho Panza.

Let me find it, I have about 10,000 different graphics of everything under the sun...Haaa!
[info]sonoitamemories wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 04:29 pm (UTC)
Okay... when you do let me know... thanks so much... huge hugs

Mickey
[info]joanofarq wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 01:28 pm (UTC)
Wow. Just wow.
[info]nsingman wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:02 pm (UTC)
I couldn't put it better myself.

Wow, indeed!
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 09:10 pm (UTC)
Yes, he's a WOWEEEE!
Thanks nsingman and hugs!
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 09:12 pm (UTC)
Glad to see you joan! Although you don't know it, I always enjoy reading your journal.
Hugs!
[info]goofy_duck2004 wrote:
May. 27th, 2005 04:50 pm (UTC)
Commendable act of kindness. Well done!

Happiness always to you both.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 03:35 am (UTC)
Thank you.

We are both very much content with each other and we have each contributed to a need that we both had. I believe it's called unconditional love.
[info]killogikill wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 12:01 am (UTC)
I like the story. The links about joining the army at the end i don't like.. if the government would spend the money on feeding the poor instead of bombs then you wouldn't have to take home a complete stranger that might have killed you....
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 09:16 pm (UTC)
I respect what you feel and I'm glad to see your comment. Hadn't heard from you in the longest time.

Sometimes we must take chances on people. I took a chance on my homeless man and it turned out to be a blessing for both of us. I needed someone in my life just as badly as he needed me. When I looked into his eyes, I saw that I was looking at a good man.

As for the bombs and all those horrors, I feel the same way you do, but this country must have its armed forces to protect it. ALWAYS. Because will always be those who will wish to do this country harm.

When I joined the Army, I had no other options. When I signed that paper, I knew exactly what would be expected of me and of the dangers I might face. In the end, it was the best thing I had ever done in my life. I will forever thank the United States Army for providing me a life where I can be independent and provide for my menial creature comforts. I own my own home, thanks to the Army and I can continue with school at no charge. Now as for me continuing my education, I am not doing it, but it's because of my own laziness.

I know exactly how you feel. I also wish that all that money would go into the homeless and the protection of our animals and creatures. Sadly, this is not so, therefore, we as people should take it upon ourselves to try to take in some poor unwanted animal, or some poor human-being who desperately needs our help because of some form of tragedy that they encountered once upon a time in their life which made them drown in a drop of water.

I'm not a super woman, I'm just a girl who has too many incredible hangups dew to tragedies that came to my life since a very early age. I had the Army to pull me out, and if it hadn't been for the Army, I know I would of also drowned in that drop of water.

They say we all have control of our own fate. This is untrue. We have no control whatsoever.
[info]poetpaladin wrote:
Jun. 18th, 2005 05:21 pm (UTC)
You don't often reveal much about yourself, but reading this journal entry and this comment tells me more than I've ever known. You are an incredible person.
[info]playgirl wrote:
Jun. 23rd, 2005 03:40 am (UTC)
I really have taken to heart, your comment. Thank you so much.

Also, thank you for being my LJ friend!

[info]dlanor wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 01:39 am (UTC)
Great story there, thanks for sharing. Hope it works out.

You are doing what we should all do in one way or another.
[info]playgirl wrote:
May. 28th, 2005 04:50 pm (UTC)
Thank you dlanor.

I can already see it is going to work. This man has already dug his way deep into my heart and I just can't imagine life without him. I know he feels the same way. It's an unconditional kind of love. We both feel safe because of each other.

I know you have done your part in trying to help your fellow man in someway or another. I can see you are that type of a man, a good man.
[info]talking_monkeys wrote:
May. 30th, 2005 11:20 pm (UTC)
That is amazing...
[info]dolphin_mama wrote:
Jun. 11th, 2005 12:59 am (UTC)
Hi I am a friend of POETPALADIN (Paul). I am planning a party for his birthday in July, weather or not you can make the party will you please email me so I can let you know about the other surprise and if you want in on it.

yesitsmedolph@yahoo.com


shhhhhhhhh!

Thanks, Shelley

P.S. if I have already emailed with you sorry for this comment

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