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Jan. 24th, 2008

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Ro's services

Ro's viewing will be held at Beall Funeral Home in Bowie, MD (address below) on Friday from 2-4pm and again at 6-8pm. Ro's funeral Mass will be held at St. Jerome's Church in Hyattsville, MD (address below) at 10am on Saturday. Ro has requested to be cremated, so there will not be a graveside service following the Mass.

Mapquest.com does a very good job with directions to both these locations:

Beall Funeral Home
6512 Crain Hwy Bowie, MD 20715, US
301-805-5544

St. Jerome's Church
5205 43rd Ave Hyattsville, MD 20781, US
301-927-6684

In lieu of flowers, we ask that people make a donation in Ro's name (Lynn M. Hunter) to her favorite charity, the Humane Society of the United States. Donations can be made by following this link: https://secure.hsus.org/01/makeadonation

I want to personally thank everyone for their sympathy and kind words during this very difficult time. I cannot adequately describe how I feel right now; the English language doesn't have the words for it. I am grateful that Ro touched so many peoples' lives because that means her memory will continue to live on and serve as inspiration or comfort when each of us face our own struggles and challenges in trying to negotiate this often difficult world we live in. But I am with all of you when I say that I already miss her dearly.

I don't know how many of you consider yourself to be religious or spiritual people, I frankly don't know where I am on that scale right now, but for what it is worth... My mother, who stayed over last night because she did not want me to be alone, said that at one point she woke up and was aware of someone heading up the stairs, and knew it was not me, because or stairs creak whenever someone goes up/down them. She can't/won't describe for me what she saw, but she insists that she was not dreaming and insists that it was Lynn. When she got up to head up stairs, she found nothing. But she fervently believes that it was Lynn heading up stairs to check on me, and believe me when I say that my mother is neither terribly religious, nor holds any belief in mysticism or the occult, nor is prone to story-telling or imagination. So, take whatever comfort you wish from that; maybe it was a dream after all, or maybe Lynn's doing just fine and is looking after me.

-Drake

Jan. 23rd, 2008

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Ro's long night has ended

Hello everyone,

My name is Drake, and I am Lynn's (Lady Rowan's) husband. It is with deep sadness that I must tell you that Rowan has succumbed to her six-year battle with cancer this afternoon. She passed away in her sleep and did not suffer.

I will be posting viewing and funeral mass information here sometime tomorrow for her friends in the Maryland area.

Thank you for keeping my wife in your thoughts and prayers.

-Drake

Dec. 24th, 2007

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bad news

been trying to figure out a way to post this, but there is no easy way.

The cancer has exploded. Without a iracle, my time is limited. I spent 11 days in the hospital, there is no surgeryn thatnwill help - only a miracle.

I;m praying hard for one - please do so also. I am not ready to go.

Again, I apologize for the bluntness of this entry - there just isn't any other way to say this.

Nov. 14th, 2007

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My Entry for the Shag A Thon over at Giles_Shagathon

Yes, I am a geek. And I adore Anthony Steward Head.... You have been warned

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Nov. 12th, 2007

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To Our Veterans

Thank you for what you have done. Because of you (and men like my Dad - God rest his soul), I am free and I live in the greatest country in the world.

No matter how badly the politicians screw things up and screw us over, it is folks like you who make this country worth living in.

My Dad (and Mom) always impressed upon me that to live in America was a privilege. One that called for a payment, which might be as simple as voting or sitting on a jury, but might be as complex and dangerous as being called to put my body on the line.

Thank the mercy of God, I was never called to be a soldier. And thank you for taking care of that duty for me.

Nov. 11th, 2007

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Bump in the Road

The cancer is resisting the Xeloda and Erbitux, so we are switching to another chemo. Luckily, cancer has a short memory and forgets what has been done before, so it's back on infusion and oxiliplatin. Bummer. At least this time there are meds to deal with the oxiliplatin side effects.

Also looks like some radiation for the lump on the side. On the CATscan it offers a density that could be cancer. Also some nodes in the belly that could be cancer or lymphedema - no way to tell, so erring on the side of caution, we are switching treatments.

So prayers, dear ones, as always. We will sort out this bump in the road, and persevere forward.

Ya'll ain't getting rid of me yet....

Nov. 4th, 2007

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Yesterday

Was not a good day.

Second anniversary of Mom's death, and I still miss her so much. Are you ever old enough to lose your Mom? Not in my case.

I could have gone to Jeff and Rie's open house, but I did not want to inflict me on other folks - it was bad enough that I bedeviled The Crusader with my mood.

Today I am a little better and am going out to TAG - up at Lady Wynne's.

I did 6 miles on the bike in 22 minutes - the last 2 minutes and 1/2 mile were to hit 200 miles on my Walk to Rivendell. I am almost half way to Rivendell! And I have achieved almost 37 miles out of the 50 I pledged to exercise by 11/14. I'm shocked that I've actually exercised every day since 10/29!

Anyone who is interested the Walk to Rivendell is a yahoo group based off of this website:

http://shieldmaidens.net/mileagedatabase/index.php

I lead such a glamourous life, don't I?

And if you haven't already - turn your clocks back!

Oct. 31st, 2007

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A Tad Calmer

Twit finally called and I have PETscan appt for end of Nov. and next appt with oncologist. I didn't even have to get nasty. That's a SCORE!

Tomorrow is going to be busy - shots for Winterbritches (he SOOOO has Daddy wrapped....) and CATscan for me.

Plus pick up antibiotics for infected toe - I had my first ingrown toenail! I feel so grown-up. (Snerk)

Did get the 3rd quarter report done and balanced. Stupid double entry error - which is what I knew it was - just couldn't find it, til I started training Jarratt and then it LEAPT out at me. D'uh - pass the donuts, Homer.

And now, to bed. I can't keep my eyes open. Which is ODD. I slept til almost 10 AM today....tomorrow I get up the first time I open my eyes and it's light out.

BUT, I have faithfully exercised every day since Sunday - I've done almost 14 miles on the recumbant bike. My goal is to do 3.6 miles per day for 2 weeks - which will get me 2 new shields on the Eowyn Challenge and make my goal of 50 miles for the Walk to Rivendell mini-challenge.

I feel so virtuous!
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Oct. 30th, 2007

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The Peter Principle in Action

The frellin' receptionist at the oncologists office sent me to the WRONG office for my CATscan. The correct office can't take me til Thursday.

She has not called me back with my PETscan appointment. She was supposed to call YESTERDAY.

I am so tired of incompetence I could cry.

So tomorrow I get on the phone and end up being "the bad guy" because I have to be firm with her about making the appointment NOW.

This is the 2nd time she's not followed thru with her job. One more strike and her boss gets one of my infamous "letters".

And I don't care if it costs her her job. You don't get to fart around with MY health.

Oct. 29th, 2007

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Prayers please

Just back from the oncologist. I have a lump (?) on one side of my abdomen, and am having a cat scan tomorrow.

Let's all PRAY it's nothing, please and thank you.
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TnT or The Order of the Salmon

...which is the award I jokingly tried to have Baroness Martelle give to those of us who labored upstream (95-N) to Rocks on Friday night.

6 freaking hours to do a 2 hour (at BEST)trip. Argh.

Camping: Never EVER again unless I have a cabin where I invite the occupants or my own pavillion. Could not sleep, bed hard and NO SHOWER on Saturday morning. WHO DO I KILL????

Troll: Domina Szilagy Margit and I worked most of the day with some assistance by the fabulous Lady Ingeborj and Lady Yseulte. I taught my lady Nichola to do count out. (One job down, 1 to go on the Teaching of the Mysteries of Exchequer-hood.) Went nicely - Lord Corwin gave us short breaks for things and we did quite well.

Camping: Did I mention Never Again?

Food: Super! Well cooked, well seasoned, tasty, mostly hot when it should be hot and cold when it should be cold. Yummyness ensued.

Booze: Oh My Gawd..... I have Some Willpower, or I would sucked down an entire bottle of desert mead entered into the brewing contest. Since there were not enough baronial entries, I have been asked to remain as Baronial Brewer for the coming year. And Now I Have A Cunning Plan....

Event: A Fine time despite enough rain to drown Noah. People had fun - when some events had to be cancelled for safety reasons, people made their own fun! I'm only sorry I had to leave after feast...it seems I missed the singing and story-telling. Next year!

Site: This may be heresy,as I know a lot of folks have deep attachments to Rocks, but I think the site sucks. But I go where the barony goes, and since I didn't do any of the work to procure a site, I'll deal. I know that next year's TnT is being planned for Rocks. I'm not camping - you hear me?

All in all a very good event.

And I hurt today....

Oct. 16th, 2007

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Nameless White Kitten

is now named Winter.

Much more dignified than what I was calling him - "Smudgelet".

Because he is a little bitty of a kitty....

And he is The Crusader's boy, so far. DADDY gets kitten kisses. I get purrs but no kisses.

Ah well, I get kisses from both huskies and Miss Ria...mustn't be selfish.
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We have LOST our minds

So The Crusader comes home RAVING about this kitten he saw at Pet Smart in the Adoption Center. (This is, BTW, the man who claims to HATE cats.) I told him we would go look at him today.

We get over there and kitten is gone - adopted last night.

So what the HELL are we doing with a 3 month old speck of purring white fur, with a smudge on the top of his head???? THIS is not the cat The Crusader wanted. "I'm not crazy about white cats."

Then the girl puts White Kitten in his arms. White Kitten interviews well, in the Crusader's words. WK flips onto his back and purrs for all he is worth.

The Crusader and I are goners.

Avalanche has YET to figure out there's a new kitten in the house, Ares is completely disinterested, Ria is hanging out with Mom, (both cats have run from all 3 lbs of him!)and Nameless White Kitten ha figured out the baby gate and is currently 'sploring the first floor.

Except he has now decided to check out the basement....

We have rocks in our heads.

Oct. 15th, 2007

Christian up to no good

Off to the doctor today

since still stomach issues altho (Thank you, Lord!) no more ralphing.

I have a stomach virus, here take ANOTHER medication, finish everything Doc in the box gave you, and pain WILL go away.

WHEN? I wanna know.

Ate 3" of a 6" tuna sub today, and am having MORE STOMACH ISSUES. I forsee a LOT of chicken noodle soup in my future.

But, down to 196! Not perhaps the best way to achieve weight loss, but I will take what I can get. Not like going with minimal caloric intake for a few days is gonna hurt me all that badly. And at least I kept down all the meds today.

So far....

And for the record, I HATE BEING SICK.

Oct. 13th, 2007

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Sick, Sick, Sick

The Crusader and I have been ill all week - up until last night, him more so than I.

I have had a sore throat all week, and yesterday, when I could not get to a regular doctor, he took me to a Doc in the Box. Said Doc was great, and I'm going back to talk to him and see if he has a private practice. He was TERRIFIC!!!!!!!!!!

I have infected sinuses, fluid build-up behind the ears, and all of this contributes to the sore throat.

UNFORTUNATELY, something he prescribed really set me off and I have been vomiting since 9 last night. It let up around 4 this morning and I got about 3 1/2 hours sleep before it started up again. Still in the 'oh, Ghod, I would feel better if I could throw up" stage, but after consultation with The World's Best Mother-in-Law, am doing my best to break that cycle.

Needless to say, because I was too stupid to come downstairs to the living room, I managed to wake The Crusader everytime I got up to hurl (about a 20 minute cycle), and at 7:15 the animals got into it. The night before I got about 4 hours of sleep, so I am dragging - he's very close behind me in the exhaustion category.

SOOOO, if I promised you something, please give me a little time to get over this before restarting the timer on me.

I think I need to go hurl again.....

Oct. 3rd, 2007

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How can a day

that starts with a mushy card from The Crusader, saying he'd marry me all over again, be anything but wonderful? (Yes, I got leaky eyes...what else is new?)

And yesterday, the PETscan results show that the damned cancer is at least stable, so extra reason to be happy.

Then birthday wishes from [info]warrior_gypsy, [info]bwliadain, and an e card from Her Majesty [info]bronx_baroness.

THIS is going to be MY year. I can feel it!

Sep. 16th, 2007

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The tracks of my tears

My brother just called - Mike Alloca died last week.

Mike lived next door to Mom for years. He was handsome, erudite, in great shape, taught at the Univ of Md and at Johns Hopkins. Apparently, he died Wed night after running - came home, sat down to watch the news and had a heart attack.

He didn't answer his phone Thur or Fri, and some friends came over and forced their way in and found him.

He was barely older than me. We are too young to die! This is really throwing me for a loop.

Eternal Rest, grant unto Micheal, oh Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of Your grace, rest in peace.

Sep. 9th, 2007

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Public Service Announcement (Sort of)

Name of Event: Treasures on the Tides (TnT 13F)
Date(s) of Event: October 26-28, 2007
Hosting Group: Barony of Bright Hills

It is the year 1587; many of the Crowns of Europe are busily squabbling over
an island nation and its single Queen leaving Atlantia the rest of the
oceans free for the taking! The Barony of Bright Hills sends out a call to
all in the land for crews to take up their oars on this mighty quest in
gathering the treasures of Atlantia on the tides for the Crown.

This event will have a quest with crews of one fighter, one fencer, an
archer, an artisan, at least one child, and one newcomer if possible. Crews
shall have to hunt for the various Kingdom level awards and complete a task,
questions or a puzzle for a token to be used at the end to determine the
winners. (I've heard rumors that some of the quest stations may accept
bribes) Along with the quest competitions, we will hold challenges to help
determine the Barony of Bright Hills newest champions, information on the
competitions will be posted as
a later date. A lunch will be included on Saturday, included in the event
fee and for those inclined a feast will be provided by Their Ladyships
Órlaith Carey and Tirzah MacCrudden. There will also be a children’s
Halloween party held during feast. We encourage all parents to bring their
child and allow them to dress up in their costumes and all adults to bring
treats for the children to collect in the hall that evening. On Friday night
there will be a spaghetti dinner and Saturday morning a continental
breakfast for a suggested donation of $2.00 each per person.

Site information:
The site is discreetly wet, meaning no original containers and all bottles
and trash must be taken with you when you leave. The camp boasts a hall with
a fireplace for gathering and feast as well as three heated cabins (two with
showers). We shall have a family dorm as well as a party dorm for campers to
use.

Martial Activities: We will have competitions through the quest for both
heavy and light weapons. We will also hold competitions to determine the new
champions heavy, light and archery champions of Bright Hills.

Arts & Sciences Activities:

Cost: Adult, Member: $8.00 Day-Trip $6.00 Feast $8.00 Camping
Adult, Non-Member: $11.00 Day-Trip $6.00 Feast $8.00 Camping
Youth (6-17): $4.00 Day-Trip $3.00 Feast $3.00 Camping
Child (0-5): $0.00 Day-Trip $0.00 Feast $0.00 Camping

Make Checks Payable To: Barony of Bright Hills, SCA, Inc.

Cost Notes: Please note on your checks the member names and numbers of
those paid for. All reservations are to be sent to Baroness Roana de Laci.

Site: Harford County 4H Camp at the Rocks. This site has heated dormatories
for camping with showers and bathrooms. Bunkbeds will have mattresses all
other bedding must be brought in.

Site Restrictions: No original containers, trash must be taken with you
when you leave site, cigarettes must be field stripped.

Feast Information:

Merchanting Information: Merchants are always welcome! We shall have plenty
of space for pavilions, as well as a covered structure. If there are weather
issues we will have merchanting in the main hall but request that the
merchants be broken down by 5:30 pm. We are asking for a donation towards
the prizes of the day from each of our merchants. Please contact the
Merchant coordinator, Lady Livi to reserve a space her e-mail address is as
follows AbramsonSM@state.gov

Other Information:

Autocrat's Information: Lady Daniela Schwartzhaupt (Danielle Scott), 135
Riverthorn Rd, Baltimore, MD 21220, Phone: (443) 823-5498, E-mail:
ladydanielabh@hotmail.com

Reservations: Baroness Roana de Laci (Lynn Hunter), 7669 Fairbanks Court ,
Hanover , MD 21076, Phone: (410) 519-7229, E-mail: Ladyro@comcast.net

Directions: Directions: I-95, Exit 77B to MD 24, Continue North on MD24
past Harford Mall on to the Route 1 Bypass North; yield right off the Bypass
at Rock Spring Road (which is MD 24, North) going towards Forest Hill. Stay
on Rock Spring Road for approximately 6 miles. Turn right onto the bridge at
Cherry Hill Road. After crossing the Deer Creek, make an immediate left into
the camp.

Special Note: The Cherry Hill Road Bridge over the Deer Creek has a limit of
15 tons gross weight. Use the alternate directions for buses and trucks that
are over the weight limit for the bridge. I-95, Exit 77B to MD 24, Continue
North on MD24 past Harford Mall on to the Route 1 Bypass North; yield right
off the Bypass at Rock Spring Road (which is MD 24, North) going towards
Forest Hill. Stay on Rock Spring Road; go through Forest Hill for
approximately 3.5 miles. Turn right on Grier Nursery Road. Continue on Grier
Nursery Road for about 3.5 miles. Turn left on Cherry Hill Road. Continue on
Cherry Hill Road for approximately 1 mile then turn right into the camp just
before the bridge.

For additional directions use: Map Quest or Maps on Us. The Camp is located
at 8 Cherry Hill Road, Street, Maryland

Sep. 6th, 2007

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A New Voice in Heaven's Choir

Luciano Pavarotti has died. The voice that got me to listen to opera has stilled on this earth and now sings in heaven.

Eternal Rest grant unto him, Oh Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul, and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of Your grace, rest in peace.

Aug. 30th, 2007

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totally lazy

I need to A. Feed the dogs, B. Shower, C. Hit the Grocery store, D. go to The Blonde's, E Make 5 gallons of Sekunjabin for Coronation on Saturday.

What am I doing? Playing WoW and reading Live Journal. Can you tell I really don't want to do anything?

I need a shot of B12 in the BUTT.

Ok, off the computer and onto the day. If I don't The Peer will KEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLL me. And I wouldn't blame her.

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