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also sprach Maureen Dowd
I knew things were changing because a succession of my single girlfriends had called, sounding sheepish, to ask if they could borrow my out-of-print copy of "How to Catch and Hold a Man."

because nothing is more indicative of the currents of modern culture than that the girlfriends of someone who uses her real estate on the New York Times Op Ed page to whine about not having a man should want to plumb the sources of her success with men.

Me, I would say "Don't tell a few million people when the people in your life do something tacky" would be a good start at becoming someone who someone would want to share a life with, but I don't have a Pulitzer Prize.

as usual, [info]jonquil responds to all this in a far more responsible way.

edit: Ann has more, links to more than that.

edit again: My Amusement Park (new to me) has a nice roundup too.
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jonquil From: [info]jonquil Date: October 31st, 2005 06:32 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
Being responsible is overrated. Bricks and baseball bats really hit these people where they live.
jmhm From: [info]jmhm Date: October 31st, 2005 06:35 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
yeah, but do I want to be only a baseball bat apart from where Maureen Dowd lives?
snuh From: [info]snuh Date: October 31st, 2005 06:53 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
She spent 80+ paragraphs saying
Men seldom make passes
At girls who wear glasses
jmhm From: [info]jmhm Date: October 31st, 2005 06:59 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
well, speaking as a well-padded middle-aged person who rarely gets enough sleep and dresses like a ragbag, I can say that this is not true.

I suspect that men of the appropriate socioeconomic status who intend something in the long term seldom make passes at girls who wear glasses (or, at least, who wear glasses of sufficient lack of fashion to suggest a basic disinterest in receiving passes), but again, no Pulitzer Prize.

So there you go.
jonquil From: [info]jonquil Date: October 31st, 2005 08:01 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
It's not as much fun being middle-aged and middle-class as it would have been to be young and rich and pretty.

Can I have my Pulitzer now?
jmhm From: [info]jmhm Date: October 31st, 2005 08:17 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
for all of me you can.

On the other hand, who do you know?
jonquil From: [info]jonquil Date: October 31st, 2005 06:01 pm (UTC) (linkie thing)
Obviously I know the wrong people, or I would have become rich when I was young and pretty, and therefore would be undergoing the surgical work necessary to retain that tiara.
From: (Anonymous) Date: October 31st, 2005 08:21 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
I believe this is approaching pile-on status...

--SL
jmhm From: [info]jmhm Date: October 31st, 2005 08:25 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
Is it?

Well, I assume the multiple millions of readers who share Ms. Dowd's thoughts will drown out the mob frenzy of whatever select group read mine.
fengi From: [info]fengi Date: October 31st, 2005 04:29 pm (UTC) (linkie thing)
Y'know, I would swear there is lifestyle reporting which involves avoiding generlizations and talking to someone other than friends and co-workers, but I could be wrong there. I could be exceedingly wrong.

I think this weeks "Get A LiveJournal"* Award goes to Dowd.

*Although it's actually more "Get A LiveJournal, Except You'd Probably Think About It More If You Were Writing This In LJ"
tikistitch From: [info]tikistitch Date: October 31st, 2005 05:31 pm (UTC) (linkie thing)
I thought the struggle for egalitarianism was a cinch, so I could leave it to my earnest sisters in black turtlenecks and Birkenstocks.

Tsk, tsk--eschewed Birkenstocks for those *fabulous* red pumps, and she *still* ended up "of a certain age" and without a MAN? Poor MoDo.

writingortyping From: [info]writingortyping Date: October 31st, 2005 06:59 pm (UTC) (linkie thing)
I confess - I got halfway through before the tedium of her prose caused my eyes to grind to a halt and refuse to take in one. More. Word.

It struck me as odd, however, that the people she quoted whose age she cited (at least in the first half) were all 26.
rosamund From: [info]rosamund Date: November 1st, 2005 03:47 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
They were?

::runs away::

*I'm* 26, and I don't want to feel that raising the children is all I can do. I happen to feel that I can do anything I blimmin' well want to, and damned if they aren't going to pay me exactly the same as they would a man for it.

::is quite possibly old-fashioned::
jmhm From: [info]jmhm Date: November 1st, 2005 03:53 am (UTC) (linkie thing)
I suspect that the 26 thing is in reference to the fact that someone who dislikes women is far more likely to find friends among women who are a) just starting out in the headlong rush to upward mobility, and b) haven't yet discovered that there are places that charm can't get you.

Being 26 doesn't make you twitterpated. Being 26 might lend toward being slightly more impressed with Maureen Dowd than, say, someone who has experience that leads them to believe she's full of shit.

Thankfully, there are folks who pick that kind of thing up earlier.

And then, as we see in the works of Ms. Dowd, there are those who never get it.
sethg_prime From: [info]sethg_prime Date: November 1st, 2005 04:55 pm (UTC) (linkie thing)
I couldn't bear to read more than the first few paragraphs of MoDo's lament, but I'm enjoying all these takedowns of it. Does this make me a bad person?
jmhm From: [info]jmhm Date: November 1st, 2005 05:01 pm (UTC) (linkie thing)
well, you know, I would feel sorry for her if she weren't so transparently gleeful about piling on Clinton over the years for no better reason than that the man in her life didn't like him (she says now that Howell Raines made her write all that mean stuff)

Of course, she said that after she started dating power liberals, so who the hell knows.

Jane Fonda annoys me for pretty much exactly the same reasons.
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