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[Wednesday
July 23 @ 9:46am]

writergrl
Yesterday, my husband had his six week checkup, post-surgery. Everything looks really good, they told him, so good that....he can start beginning to ride a bike again. To which I said: WHAT? I mean, I'm all for him getting back to normal, but if it was up to me, he'd at least wait, I don't know, another few months. If not forever. So many people have said to me (edit: so many of my girlfriends) "You need to tell him no more bike riding! It's over!" But what they don't realize is that isn't even an option. It would be like him telling me I can't read anymore, or watch TV, or waste time on Twitter, all things that I love. Admittedly, these are less dangerous pursuits. You are unlikely to break a sternum while watching Tori And Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood. Still, it could happen. Life is dangerous. This is something I never wanted to admit, even before I had up close and personal proof. So I will grit my teeth, and hope he waits a little while, and try NOT to think of all we've been through this summer with the surgery the first time he pedals off. Because this is a marriage, not a dictatorship. Although sometimes, like now, I see why a dictatorship might be kind of nice.

In other news, I'm taking a vacation. A REAL one, which means(gulp!) no blogging or Facebook or Twitter until August. I know! But it is LONG overdue. We haven't been out of town for over a year and there is family to see, and plane rides to take. I wish I was going to a place like Sara Zarr's blog, complete with cucumber slices on my eyes and spa treatments, but you can't have everything. Hopefully by the time I return I'll have LOTS of stories to tell, none of them involving broken bones or hospitals. We have had just about enough of that, and there is still, thankfully some summer left. I'm ready to take it.

I hope you all have a GREAT rest of July. See you next month!
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[Monday
July 21 @ 8:53am]

writergrl
Here's big news for your Monday: Brenda is OFFICIALLY returning to 90210. For those of you keeping track at home, that Jennie Garth, Shannen and Tori all signed on to appear. Which, for old school fans like me, is very exciting. But you have to wonder if maybe all this sort-of stunt casting will take away from the new show itself? I mean, aren't we supposed to be bonding with new characters, and not just waiting around for old ones to show up? I have utter faith in Rob Thomas---as I was addicted to Veronica Mars---so I'm sure he knows what he's doing. I guess I just want the show to be good on its own, not just because of all these familiar faces. We'll find out in the fall, I suppose.

I would love to say that I spent my weekend doing worthwhile and scholarly things. Mostly, though, I searched for people from my past on Facebook. My babysitter calls this "stalking people on Facebook," but I prefer to look at it, like the 90210 thing, as nostalgia. I found two very old friends I'd completely lost touch with....as well as a handful of people I don't want to be in touch with AT ALL but was still mildly curious about. Anyway. It's a total time waster. Next weekend, I'm cleaning out my closet and tackling my junk drawer. No, really!

I also spent some of the weekend catching up with Kathy Griffin and My Life On The D-List, which was just nominated for another Emmy this past Friday. Basic truth: Kathy Griffin fascinates me. People either love or hate her (and when they hate her, they REALLY hate her) but I think she's hilarious. I love her self-deprecation, and how much she loves her dogs, and her strange relationship with Steve Wozniack (which I think is now over, but still, fun to watch while it was still going). She always seems to be in situations where people have no idea who she is, but if I met her, I'd be TOTALLY star struck. I'm not yet stalking her on Facebook. But it's still early.

Finally, on a last TV note, I'm in serious Scrubs withdrawal. So much so that I spent some of my non-Facebook time this weekend trying to find out when Season Seven is going to be released on DVD. Only up to six is available. Any Scrubs devotees out there: is this coming season the seventh, or was last season but they just haven't released it? Any info would be much appreciated. Maybe I should ask my Facebook friends, too?

Okay, no. I'm going to clean out my closet. Seriously. Just as soon as I update my status....

Have a great day everyone!
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[Friday
July 18 @ 7:02am]

writergrl
The Friday Five!

1. The Emmy nominations were announced today, and I have to say I'm a little unsettled that so many of the shows nominated I've never seen. Which I think is kind of insane, considering how much TV I watch. Maybe it says something about quality, not quantity? I don't watch The Closer or Burn Notice or Saving Grace, or really any of the basic cable shows that got noticed this year. But I DO love Tina Fey, who got tons of noms for herself and 30 Rock, although I hate to see her up against Mary Louise Parker in Weeds. They're both so good! Just like Rainn Wilson having to be up against Jeremy Piven. Decisions, decisions. I guess it's good I'm not an Emmy voter. I would be agonizing even more than normal.

2. I CAN now say that I've seen Mad Men, as I watched the first episode last night. I'm a little nervous, because it didn't totally blow my doors off, and I worry that it was hyped SO much that there's no way it can ever live up. Then again, I know better than to judge by just one episode, so I will certainly be diving back in, probably tonight. I have to say that I really like the look of the show. The clothes make you want to buy strappy shoes and pencil skirts and tease up your hair. Although I have to say the anti-tobacco folks must hate this show. EVERYBODY smokes. I want to cough just watching it. Still, I'm in. At least for the first whole disc.

3. It's watermelon time of year again, and I am reminded how much I really love this sweet, pink fruity snack. Last summer, while hugely pregnant, I was ADDICTED to watermelon. I ate it every night after dinner, and looked forward to it all day. Equally fun was going to buy the little seedless ones I loved at the grocery store, where I always got a little kick when they were rung up as "Personal Melon." I always thought that would be a GREAT name for a band. Maybe I should form one just to use it? Oh, right. No musical talent. Oh, well.

4. Today, I took one step closer towards the life of suburbia: we bought a station wagon. Not one of the wood-paneled, huge boat-like things of my childhood (although Courtney thought that was a great idea) but a nice, small used one that gets good gas mileage. It's very sporty and nice. But I still had that weird pang. Station wagon? Us? Really? Aren't we still, like, sixteen? Apparently not. Still, it seems like only yesterday we were just hanging out, listening to Personal Melon records....

5. It was five years ago today that How to Deal, the movie made from my first two books, was released. It was a crazy time for me, but I had just so much fun. So of course I'm feeling nostalgic, so I went looking on the web and sure enough, on the IMDB page, you can watch the original preview. Which I saw for the first time, I remember, on TRL one afternoon when it world premiered. Totally surreal. Anyway, just to celebrate, or at least note it, here's the link. I'm such a loser. I'm going to watch it again.

Have a great weekend, everyone!
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[Wednesday
July 16 @ 7:19am]

writergrl
Last night, we finished the last season on DVD of Scrubs. There's a certain satisfaction, I've found, in following a series on DVD all the way until the end (or at least the end of what's available). It's like an accomplishment. For us coach potatoes, perhaps the equivalent of completing a marathon, say. We put in the time, worked hard, saw it all the way through. Victory! Which is quickly followed by a sense of letdown. Like, now what? For me, it's Mad Men, and then maybe The Wire.

Plus Project Runway, which I believe starts a new season tonight? It's hard to say because I've seen, like, NOTHING about it in magazines or on the air. Maybe because of the whole jumping to Lifetime thing, which I think might have made the folks at Bravo a bit peeved? It will be fun once it's on there, though, because so many of my friends who don't have Bravo (which is, most of them) will be able to watch it finally. I cannot wait to see new converts to the church that is Tim Gunn. Make it work, indeed! It's more fun than running a Scrubs marathon.

In other news, my daughter is giving me serious problems with her carseat. It's not the carseat, actually, as much as the covering OVER it. It's got this fuzzy kind of lining underneath, and she's discovered that she REALLY likes reaching under it, pulling it out, and sticking it in her mouth. No matter how many toys I give her---teether, stuffed monkey, Ugli Doll---she still abandons all for the fuzz. I sit there, at the wheel, and watch her in the her little mirror as she excavates it out, then eats it. Which leads to me pulling over, grabbing it from her hand, then trying the whole teether-monkey-uglidoll thing all over again. We put tape under the padding, but she's pulling that off now. Help! Do they even make replacement covers? Maybe made out of, like, steel or something? If anyone knows, fill me in. I'm a little desperate. For now, I'm putting on more tape. And more tape. And more tape.....

Have a good day, everyone!
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[Monday
July 14 @ 9:03am]

writergrl
This weekend, we decided to take Sasha on one of her big Firsts: first trip to the Flying Burrito. Now, the Burrito is where I worked for seven years or so, during college and then after while I was writing my first book (and my second, and then my third, which was the one I actually ended up selling, That Summer). Anyway, I LOVE the Burrito, and see it as a big part of my past and my life. Earlier this year, though, the original owners sold the restaurant, which was then closed for awhile while the new owners did renovations. Every time I drove by, I'd look over, wondering how different it was going to be. And then, this weekend, I got to find out.

It IS different. Like, the bar is on the whole other side, where the quieter dining room used to be. And the office is now a bathroom, and the wait station/kitchen is closed in, so you can't hear every word said (or, usually when I was there, shouted). Plus they took up the carpet, painted it this pretty yellow, and put lots of prints of cacti on the walls. All good. And the food was REALLY close to the same. I got my standard Flying Chicken burrito (chicken, rice, salsa, sour cream) and queso, chips and salsa as a starter. The baby loved the rice, and all in all, it was a good time. But the entire time I was there, I just couldn't stop thinking about the OLD space. "We're sitting right where the margarita machine was!" I said to Sasha, who did not care one bit. Everywhere I looked, I saw not the new, but what had been there before. Not the pretty, new leather booths, but the old ones, squeaky and held together with duct tape. (Nope. Not kidding.) Not the gorgeous, minimalist decor, but all the old clutter: Durham Bulls pendants, Craig Gurganus surfboard fish, and the little sculptures my old boss Phil called his "Mayan art" which were really these somewhat obscene figurines of people in various positions, um, together. He always insisted on keeping them right by the bar, where we were always moving them behind glasses and the lava lamps, they were so embarrassing. I missed the lava lamps, too, now that I think of it.

But this is just me. I am so stuck in the past, the queen of nostalgia. Anyone else walking in there would just enjoy the great food, and the blues music (which is a nod to the old place, as well) and the fact that it is bright and clean and open again, which is all that really matters. After dinner, I took Sasha out of her high chair and walked her around. "This is where I used to roll silverware," I told her, as we passed where the old hostess station was. "And this was section three, the hardest section of all, especially on a Friday night." Again, she was not that interested. I guess your history is only fascinating to yourself. But for some reason, I wanted to tell her all this anyway. Maybe so I don't forget, which it seems like you could easily do when something is spackled over, and repainted, and made new again. I lived a LOT of my life at the Flying Burrito. I cried in the walk-in cooler (more times than I'd like to remember) I danced on the bar, I slung a million Flying Chickens, filled a million chip baskets. It was the job that allowed me to become a writer, and for that, more than anything, I will be forever grateful.

Plus, that queso was GOOD. Yum!

Have a good day, everyone!
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