Thursday I met up with Matt to catch up on the pagansoc news (I didn't go on wednesday, obviously). Had dinner at the Belgian Monk, and cherry & peach beer, very tasty. The Ten Bells is a great pub in the week- quiet, big, and dingy.
Friday I didn't go to the proclaimers' church night at uea, as I'd said I would. We got dellacasa pizza instead :)
Saturday I started the day with a long
sunnyside bath
(it makes the water into a shimmering, swirly gold, with bubbles). Traffic was bad, so we just went straight down to Southend to stay with Mark's parents at their new house. Very nice area, one road away from the beach. They had friends over, we watched Merlin and Strictly Come Dancing, and went for a night-time walk on the beach.
Sunday we slept in late, and then had a shopping trip at curry's. Went to a nice sea-facing restaurant for lunch, then me and Mark went to the aquarium because his Mum had a bogof ticket :) I forgot my camera, but the light is always rubbish in there anyway. The rays were very friendly, and it was a nice way to pass a couple of hours, looking at all the otherworldly things. Sharks! There is a bit that you can stand under the tank, and the roof was flat, there was five sharks on it, just sleeping! Got a good view of their lickle teeth and snorgable bellies. :)
Then I made his Mum a coffee&walnut cake, because today is her birthday. I've not made a cake in a very long time, so I was a bit worried... but I followed the instructions, and it didn't matter that the first batch of "buttercream" was actually like runny icing (
we mark drizzled it on the top!), and we all had some and got WIRED. It was lovely. and they don't mind my cheese-obsession (cheese boards!!!!), and they think that I am very lovely, and invited me for christmas and new year. I WIN A NEW FAMILY! :D
Also, his Mum is very sweet, and she'd bought this turkey/ostrich toy, and he is very sweet (he is called Oswald, or Osborn - she hadn't decided). This is the noise he makes when he likes you:
gobble-obble-obble!
And then today, we went to Colchester Zoo! There were lions and tigers! and a million other cute things. I squeaked the whole way round and leopards are the sexiest of all the cats, didn't get time for the water animals bit (seals, penguins, etc), but was an awesome morning!
>OMGZoo!pix< Daz broke up with his girlfriend (again). I laughed, though that is quite mean. And after ignoring me all this time, I thought I'd test him and sent him a message saying that I hoped he was ok. And he just came on msn, and apparently she was cheating on him with 2 guys. I have no sympathy for him, and ffs he is still bullshitting (that the hospital don't have "priority", just 1st come 1st done. which is bull. it's the nhs, no different from any hospital). He hasn't asked how I am, or how anything is with my family - he knew the full deal, and said he'd be there for me even as he dumped me. lesson learnt.
I told myself I'd make cards tonight... got three hours til Mark's home. Hungry... food then maybe cards. :)