See what happens, I have many selections in my life right now, hmmmmm. Life is good, I have found a perfect cute apartment less is more. Time to get rid of stuff and get new stuff.
Moving is funny you find out what you really need, I have 300 hundred T-shirts, I am saving a few to have a friend make a quilt out of and the rest are going to out of the closet. I have 25 Starbucks bears, ebay here I come. Salad bowls no silver ware, 35 coffee mugs no glasses. 12 knifes those I'm keeping get real. And hats ball caps at least 20 of them has anyone ever seen me in a ball cap? 
Storage units are like credit cards what the crap was I thinking and why did Ikeep any of this?

 Ok so its been a while, my life is a roller coaster, but isn't everyones?

Its been a year since the divorce and change seems to be the way of my life now. I have a new career, and i'm back in sales again, its funnny how good I am at it. I love the pressure the tension I like winning. I also like helping people with what I'm doing now I get to do both.

My personal life I am trying to develop a grey area, not easy I'm pretty black and white. Communication and working through the rough stuff is hard. but this is where I get the chance to grow.

The holidays are wonderful I used to dread them but now I do different things an am very Happy.

Xmas day on the beach with a picnic basket sounds good to me, if I'm lucky a pretty girl at my side.

more later

Well the boi and girl are going out of town to Texas. The girls mom is recovering from a stroke and this will be stressful for both of them. I'm glad they are going together for support rental cars are great when dealing with bio family, always have an escape route its the only way.

Imsl going to be interesting and we party on. Arriving sometime on thursday, part of a caravan from LA complete with motorcycles and a planned lunch stop. Thank god the bootblack is going early and my lugage is going with her. The L mobile is going to be packed travel light I tell myself think europe. Less is more. Lets all laugh together cause I am one of the biggest clothes horses I know.

And the girls clothes pack small, she is going to look great in her new trench coat yummmmmmmmm

The problem is I've lost weight and I can wear some favorites I could'nt wear for a long time.

Less is more

Ok so out here on the West Coast we are getting ready for Imsl. Exciting what a party it is going to be, people are coming to this that I haven't seen in years. Be afraid one women is coming who knew me when I lived Michigan the crimes of my youth. 

We are driving cause well we have stuff LOL ask Lolita I don't travel light working on it, because well I'll have less so the girl has more room for heels and lingere there are things that are more important.

I am working my tail off yes Daddy is losing weight, and feeling great. Taking care of my personal business I must of been a lawyer in another life. I'm working to get my debt down so travel will be limited. except Imsl, NY to see the kids, and my Leather Family party.

So come to CA so I can meet more of you

Ok so I got back home and everything went crazy. 2006 was full of change for me and 2007 is continuing in that vein. 

For those of you that don't know cara and I are officially divorced. Its sad when the rabbi cries, we grew apart and both of us are going on different paths. For those of you who were at desire you witnessed the beginning of the end. And the beginning of the new lives. You can do divorce and still take the high road we are doing it. Its amazing all the different stages of emotions its a roller coaster. But I love being present in my own life.

Jeff B. Brian's partner passed. If you didn't know him you missed someone wonderful a sweet sexy playful man. The funeral was wonderful 400 people were there. Family, Leather folk, Gay car folks, work buddies, and everyone else. Brian's daugher speech didn't leave a dry eye, Joe R. saved us with laughter " I first saw Brian and Jeff in an instructional magazine".

Aslynn also passed she was an original member of LARAWW. She described herself as a Dandy. Wonderful smile sparling eyes and a kindness and gentleness that you just don't find anymore.

Also my friend Jack passed he battled a long illness of several diseases. Jack was my dark prince we had several things in common the love of S&M strippers and hunting and playing in different places. Jack was a studio musician and played in the Jazz and Blues bands ans toured with several bands. More in the outer tribe he will be missed.

But our youth is growing and I've met cat boy and his mistress the are 19 and have been together for 3 years.

I have met the love of my life, she is moving to the west coast in June. In the words of Momma Bear she was a free agent no draft choice for the east coast.

For those of you who are looking go to the smaller events and don't forget about the mid west I came from there.

So life is good, I have the best kids in the world my family and the women I love.



But life's joys are all the new my friends and the chance to really live.

Well daddy has finally arrived home from the NY and East Coast wow what fun. I have always wanted to celebrate hanukkah, and go to movies and chinese with the kids, lo and phil. It was wonderful NY with lo and phil who could ask for anything more. Lo had museum trips window viewing of xmas in Ny and personal parties with friends. I an the luckiest Daddy in the world. I have the best kids sexy, smart, and fun.

For Nyears I traveled to Balimore and stayed with friends at a local dungeon, what a trip reality is strange after days of fun and play. more later

Happy holidays from NYC!  I am here visiting my kids (the good kids 

lolitasir

 and

boymeat

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Lolita set me up with an LJ and a tour of NYC that was second to none.  More details to come.  Daddy needs more coffee.