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[Nov. 30th, 2004|12:13 am] |
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I'm gonna be posting more often now that I actually have a net connection at home. Spiritboi: Take a look at this, this is from the quiz u posted a lil while back.
You Are From Mercury |

You are talkative, clever, and knowledgeable - and it shows. You probably never leave home without your cell phone! You're witty, expressive, and aware of everything going on around you. You love learning, playing, and taking in all of what life has to offer. Be careful not to talk your friends' ears off, and temper your need to know everything.
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[Nov. 24th, 2004|10:17 pm] |
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Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
Joined: 07 Oct 2000 Last Seen: 24 Nov 2004
PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2004 10:58 PM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post #1. In regards to starving ppl in this city, y do u think we have something called a FOOD BANK, i've had to peruse it several times myself. #2. In regards to my daily internet usage. Do u not think that I don't have friends...My best friend and her husband helped me out, but they were the only ones who were finacially and emotiionally stable enuff to do so. Friends with internet r good to have. As well, have u not ever heard of public internet access thru places like the local library, or welfare offices, or City of Calgary/Edmonton/Red Deer/Buttfuck wherever?? Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Ser_Loras Basic Member
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Last Seen: 24 Nov 2004
PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2004 09:54 PM Reply with quote Dear Idiots,
It's not that I don't like helping people, it's just that his reasons were shady in the first place. I mean really; think about it. It's too bad that all of those who "helped" feel _that_ bad about themselves that they needed this kind of charity to ease their concience.
And as for 'Bert' being a sweet guy... If by sweet, do you mean the type that act uber-nice and agreeable to your face and then roll your eyes and talk smack when you leave? That's the kind of 'sweet' that you strike me as.
If you want to throw your money away, there are millions of starving children in the world.. some in your very city, I'd bet. Why would you choose to help a vagrant who can't even present his facts clearly, when there are people FUCKING DYING FROM NOT EATING?
Also, this dude can't be _that_ bad off if he somehow manages to check his interweb every single day.
Fuckin' idiots. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email brook Basic Member
Joined: 23 Jan 2000 Last Seen: 24 Nov 2004
PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2004 05:31 PM Reply with quote Quote: WHEN YOU DONT KNOW THE SITTUATION STAY OUT OF IT......if u want to help out then mayb u'll hear about it, otherwise mind ur own fuckin buisness
This answers my questions. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2004 12:25 AM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post THANK YOU BERT!!!!! WOOOOOOHOOOO *pats u on the back* Sounds like u've got some experience behind u. U hit the nail on the head with that one (just depends which head we're talking about here). Thank you to every1 who has supported Brad and I in this tough time, the advice and everything is MUCH MUCH MUCH appreciated. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email bert_bofaglio Basic Member
Joined: 20 Jun 2004 Last Seen: 24 Nov 2004
PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2004 05:09 PM Reply with quote Hey don't judge us all by what Sir Soreass says! icon_evil.gif
I'm a very sweet gay man who now lives in Alberta. And several people came to the aid of Mr. Lonely Boy here which shows what a wonderful bunch we really are.
Sir Soreass just likes to be controversial or whatever and gets his jollies by calling people morons. I think we should all just take him with a grain of salt....responding or getting mad at his inflammatory remarks only encourages him. Let him spew his venom off in a lonely corner somewhere. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Exit_Stage_Left Basic Member
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2004 03:36 PM Reply with quote Quote: *shakes head at the uber-bitter dark cloud that hangs over Alberta's gay community*
I was referring to the Nationally recognized bitter, nasty attitude that seems to plague so many of Alberta's gay men. For Christ' sake, look at this thread! Only in Alberta would something like this escalate into a full-on bitch-fest. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2004 02:35 AM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post Quote: But that's not what he was asking for; he was asking for money. Unless this hatecrime facilitor is going to give him money, I doubt that this poor, lonely boy will be interested. After all, he did say he spoke with the police, and they were of no help.
Ok....Ser Loras, Now u've REALLY pissed me off. I am NOT asking for $$, I'm asking for help and this is exactly the kind of help I'm looking for. Yes, I know of Doug Jones, and I've got him helping me out in terms of legal advice. Btw, thank u VERY much Brat for the advice, it's much appreciated. Ser Loras, $$ is not what I'm asking for. Monetary assistance would b helpful, yes, and in terms of that, if some1 wanted to offer then it would b appreciated, if ppl can't offer $$ but have other advice then that makes me happy too. Brad and I have found a place thanks to a VERY kind man on here. Thank you VERY VERY much for your help, you know who you are and I don't frrl I need to reveal ur identity or how ur helping, but again, thank you. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2004 02:28 AM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post MY RESIDENT MANAGER IS A HOMOPHOBIC CRACK HEAD, WHAT MORE NEEDS TO BE EXPLAINED???
Neways, my b/f and I, through here have found a place, thank you VERY much to the person that's helping us out, we muchly appreciate the assistance. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Ser_Loras Basic Member
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 03:52 PM Reply with quote This Cuddle_bubble character know the score! Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Ser_Loras Basic Member
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 03:51 PM Reply with quote Quote: *shakes head at the uber-bitter dark cloud that hangs over Alberta's gay community*
*shakes head at the seemingly implicit notion that gays need to be part of a divergant satellite 'community' in order to feel validated and safe*
Would a heterosexual be given the same kind of consideration? Think about that. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email cuddle_bubble Basic Member
Joined: 22 Nov 2004 Last Seen: 24 Nov 2004
PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 03:49 PM Reply with quote A few things about this dont make sense.... U havent mentioned what u may have done to contribute to your eviction. Most boarding houses have strict rules to insure cohesion of all tenants due to shared bathrooms, kitchens etc. If theres two of you in one room, I could see how that could cause problems. I got myself into this situation by letting a freind move in while i was in a dorm at NAIT.
I do have some positive advice. If you are both capable of working, go down to the 'workers corner,' at centre street and 12 ave S. Companies drive by there all day and pickup labourers. They pay cash at the end of the day, 8 to 15/hr U and your boyfriend could have rent and damage in a week. If u work hard and impress them, it usually leads to a permanent job.
Also, "cash stop" and "payday loan," places will lend you a damage deposit. Theres one in the 4800 block of Mcleod trail. The service charge is insane, but its sounds like youre desperate.
As a last resort, Social Services may help. I would frown on going on it permanently, but the system was desined for a temporary emergency.
Good luck. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Exit_Stage_Left Basic Member
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 03:13 PM Reply with quote *shakes head at the uber-bitter dark cloud that hangs over Alberta's gay community* Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Ser_Loras Basic Member
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 02:24 PM Reply with quote Now that's good advise. But that's not what he was asking for; he was asking for money. Unless this hatecrime facilitor is going to give him money, I doubt that this poor, lonely boy will be interested. After all, he did say he spoke with the police, and they were of no help. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email ABitOfABrat Basic Member
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 12:25 PM Reply with quote OMG Ser and brook....BACK OFF!!!! Somebody is asking for help and is in a crisis and this is how you treat him? Sounds like the typical Alberta attitude (i.e. "Screw you if you're down and out and poor"). icon_evil.gif
Lonely...there is a constable on the force by the name of Doug Jones who is currently the Hate/Bias crime co-ordinator. You can reach him at . He's a really nice guy so maybe you could get action taken faster through him. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 05:34 AM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post WHEN YOU DONT KNOW THE SITTUATION STAY OUT OF IT......if u want to help out then mayb u'll hear about it, otherwise mind ur own fuckin buisness Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email brook Basic Member
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2004 05:57 PM Reply with quote Hey there LB what did you actually do to piss off everyone at your residence?Landlords just don't threaten you to get out without some lude obnoxious conduct on you and your BF's behavior.You obviously were disrespecting the rules of the building. ie:running up and down the halls sceaming like a couple of school girls,yelling & fighting or playing your tunes too loud! If in fact, he has found out about you and your BF and is homophobic, then you have already done the right thing by informing the police.Unfortunately, you may not get much help as is the situation in most cases. Especially in Alberta! icon_confused.gif: Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Ser_Loras Basic Member
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2004 09:50 AM Reply with quote Because I don't think it would really be helping him. If other people keep bailing him out, then how's he ever supposed to learn to live independantly? Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Dayre Basic Member
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2004 12:26 AM Reply with quote mm, yes I'm sure you understand his situation completely, and definately much better than he would.... icon_confused.gif If you're not actually looking to help then why waste your energy? Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Dayre Basic Member
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 20, 2004 03:58 PM Reply with quote Good lord Ser_Loras back off would ya? Does it really matter what actually legal and what's not? He's talked to the people he needs to talk to and obviously they aren't going to do anything. The point of Lonelyboi's post is to get help, not get torn apart by some asswipe.
LB if I were in a position to help you and your boy out I would. I'd just say keep in touch with the police and make sure this landlord guy is watched like a hawk until you can get out of there. And maybe just keep your distance from this guy. icon_confused.gif *shrug* Dunno, my guess is the cops are your best bet. Sorry to hear what's happening, and I hope things work out for you. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 19, 2004 10:32 PM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post I will tell you right now, I am NOT begging for $$, I'm asking for help, if that help comes in monetary form, hey, it's all good, if people decide to help me in other ways, that's good too. I'm asking for HELP, NOT begging for someone to save me. If I were begging, there's better ways to beg, then to tell someone ur situation and ASK for help. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Ser_Loras Basic Member
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 19, 2004 09:14 AM Reply with quote Quote: I spoke with the land and teneant office of my situation just this morning. BOARDING HOUSES ARE NOT COVERED UNDER THE RESIDENTIAL TENANCIES ACT AND COMPLAINTS ARE THERFORE NOT HANDLED BY THE LAND AND TENANT OFFICE. Maybe you should do some reasearch before you open your mouth just as i said in my other reply to your post about the group home. I'm sure if you were to actually do your research before you opened your mouth you might have better responses from people. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK.
If you pay rent to another person, and occupy a space on their property, then you have entered into a legal landlord-tenant contract, and that contract is subject to the Act. You do your fucking research.
I don't have to think before I speak because I'm so used to being right; it's really just an extra step that I don't need.
Quote: As to the Threats, I've already got the police involved, and as to being 22, NOT ALL PEOPLE HAVE HAD THE SAME LIFE YOU'VE HAD AND NOT EVERYONE HAS HAD THE SAME PARENTS YOU HAD, PEOPLE ARE NOT ALWAYS BROUGHT UP THE SAME WAY. Yes, i'm an adult, but I wasn't given the chance by my parents to become independant when I should have, THEY DIDN'T GIVE ME THE TOOLS TO BE ABLE TO BE COMPLETELY INDEPENDANT, therefore, now that I've been thrown into independance, I'm not sure how to deal with some situations because I haven't encountered them before.
So your parents taught you to search the interweb for help dealing with paying your rent?
Cry me a fjord, wimp. No one said I had an easy life. In fact, it was quite the opposite. I had no choice but to be resiliant. I wasn't given the "tools" ither, but I didn't complain and beg for money. It's called life, and we grow by living it and coping on our own sometimes.
And you said that your parents never gave you the chance to become independant.. DUDE, THIS IS YOUR CHANCE.
Anyways, you might have better luck panhandling in front of the Starbucks. But then again, that's just my opinion. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 18, 2004 11:06 PM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post I spoke with the land and teneant office of my situation just this morning. BOARDING HOUSES ARE NOT COVERED UNDER THE RESIDENTIAL TENANCIES ACT AND COMPLAINTS ARE THERFORE NOT HANDLED BY THE LAND AND TENANT OFFICE. Maybe you should do some reasearch before you open your mouth just as i said in my other reply to your post about the group home. I'm sure if you were to actually do your research before you opened your mouth you might have better responses from people. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK.
As to the Threats, I've already got the police involved, and as to being 22, NOT ALL PEOPLE HAVE HAD THE SAME LIFE YOU'VE HAD AND NOT EVERYONE HAS HAD THE SAME PARENTS YOU HAD, PEOPLE ARE NOT ALWAYS BROUGHT UP THE SAME WAY. Yes, i'm an adult, but I wasn't given the chance by my parents to become independant when I should have, THEY DIDN'T GIVE ME THE TOOLS TO BE ABLE TO BE COMPLETELY INDEPENDANT, therefore, now that I've been thrown into independance, I'm not sure how to deal with some situations because I haven't encountered them before. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Ser_Loras Basic Member
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 18, 2004 07:58 PM Reply with quote HAHAhHAAHhHHAhh
Dude, you ARE covered under the Residential Tenancy Act.
That, of course, is besides the point.
Do you know what assault is? Well, I'll tell you what assault is: It is the belief of imminent offensive bodily contact. So, you can be assaulted with out actually being touched- if he did, then it's battery. So, your landlord has already committed a crime by threatening you, and if you wanted to, you could have him arrested. But I have a feeling you already knew this, as it is fairly common knowlege that you can't just go around threatening to kill people.
This seems like bullshit to me. Dude, you're 22. You're technically a man. If you've got a problem, fix it yourself. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email Lonelyboi23 Basic Member
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 18, 2004 04:17 PM Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post My resident manager has twice in the past threatened physical harm and just today, November 18th, threatened to kill me. Untill the 26th, my bf and I do NOT have the financial resources available to move out of here. Because the place is an 8 bedroom boarding house, it is not covered under the residential tenancy act and we have nowhere else to go. My dad is living in a 55 community and my mom cannot take me because of her mental health state. My bf and I are scare of the resident manager and no longer want to stay here, we've had nothing but problems since we moved in, aand all the other tenants are upset as well. Would somebody PLEASE be willing to help us out (i.e. a place to stay for a couple of days, once we find a place possibly help with even a small amount of cash (in the form of a cheque made to a landlord that can be verified), or provide some other assitance), if you can help, THANK YOU in advance. Back to top View users profile Send private message Send email |
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[Oct. 31st, 2004|05:07 pm] |
Hey,
Sorry I haven't been posting lately. I've been busy working on Calgary Youth Pridehouse and Resource Center. It's going to open May 22 2005. It's a safehouse and resource center for GLBT youth and will b the first of it's kind in Canada. We will provide things for kids to do 7 days a week rather than just the 1 day a week they get at Gay and Lesbian Community Services Association. Anyways, enuff of my rambling. If you wanna know more......feel free to contact me. |
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| Poem by Jewel |
[Oct. 31st, 2004|04:45 pm] |
This is a poem I love written by Jewel: FAITH POEM (a poem about faith) I don't know how to do anything I am trying to move mountains with words But I am an ant I scribble I drool I move like a worm whose world (words) encompassed a mile How do I rise above? Where will this worm find wings? I look in the mirror and I see filth Who is that? Where did The Angel go? Why is there dirt staring back at me? Why is the soil of incompetence beneath my nails? Why does doubt paint blue rings beneath my eyes and stain my skin? Why does my spine assume failure Why do my lips flirt with the sky; why do I try to lasso Beauty with such a pitiful rope? Where is the hair of Rapunzel or Samson? Where is my sling Where is my stone, My gun? Where is the weapon with which I may fight this apathy that feels like sleep in my limbs that loosens my brother's smile that kills my neighbor's daughter This pen is scrawny and hardly seems able to ink out or erase this plague that infests my Generation This Giant, This Ogre This Beast, This Death that assumes a million faces, that borrows my own. |
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| More praise for Kevin |
[Aug. 15th, 2004|12:21 pm] |
Kevin, I don't even know where to begin in telling you how I feel about you, about how you make me feel. I've never been happier than when we met on MSN msngr, the talks we've had. My heart skips a beat every time I see you log on and I can't believe how happy I am when I talk to you.
I'm starting to fall in love with you even thought we haven't met Kevin and it's scary. I've never had feelings at this intensity for someone before and it's scaring me, but at the same time I love it. I love how you make me just scream with happiness inside, the way all my worries just leave when I talk to you, the way I smile whenever you log on, the way my heart skips a beat. Kevin, I want you to be a part of my life. When I come and see you in November it's going to be the happiest time of my life and I know I'm not going to want to leave, but I will have to. I can't describe why you make me feel like this, I cant describe why I get so crazy over you, but I can say that I want to be with you for a LONG LONG time. |
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| Things that make you go HMMMMMM....... |
[Aug. 12th, 2004|12:20 am] |
I met some guys on the net that claimed they needed my help, now I find out they're perverts and I have to delete them. Guess I need to be a little more carefull about who I put on my Messenger list.
I also have a friend, for all intents and purposes I will call him Devin (not real name for privacy issues), and for those of you who know me, not the Devin I often talk about. Devin's parents are old school Christians, he's gay, but his parents are trying to pressure him into being straight. I have problems with this and so does he. He wants to move out and can't, he has no gay friends to kind of help him in terms of direction on the issue other than me, and I'm piled up to my ears with my own shit right now.
On the Subject of Kevin, I have one thing to say......UR AWESOME SWEETIE!!! |
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| My song for Kevin |
[Aug. 3rd, 2004|10:57 pm] |
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| | You've Got a Friend | ] | Kevin, you don't know this yet, but I alway pick a song for each guy that I really wanna b with or am with. This is my song for you.
You've Got a Friend
When your down and troubled And you need some love and care And nothing, nothing is going right Close your eyes and think of me And soon I will be there To brighten up Even your darkest night
You just call out my name And you know wherever I am I'll come runnin' To see you again Winter, spring, summer or fall All you have to do is call And I'll be there You've got a friend
If the sky above you Grows dark and full of clouds And that old north wind begins to blow Keep your head together baby And call my name out loud Soon you'll hear me Knockin' at your door
Sweetie, you can always call on me, I'll be here for you no matter what. |
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| The most wonderfull thing happened to me this week...... |
[Jul. 30th, 2004|07:03 pm] |
Last week was a SHITTY week, got gay bashed, and lost my job because of it, but this week has been AWESOME!!!....I've met the most wonderful guy that I could think of to meet, and I don't yet know where it's gonna go. He lives in Brantford, Ontario, and I live in Calgary, Alberta, a little distance between us. I honestly feel like it could work if things develop, but I'm not too sure, all the long distance relationships I've had before have always ended in a lot of pain, but there's something different about this one. He's smart and funny, and he always manages to make me smile even when I feel like shit. I get shivers down my spine when I talk to him and I can't stop thinking about him at times. All day at work today, I was thinking about him and I've been SOOOO happy all day. I kinda wish we lived in closer proximity, but circumstances are such that it's not possible at the moment. I was planning to take a trip to Ontario in November anyways, but the person I'm going there to see is now going to be someone different. The person I'm now going to be meeting is someone that I hope will be a VERY important, even integral part of my life and I hope that circumstances will change to such that either he can eventually move out here, or I out there. I don't know, it feels like he may be someone that I could build a meaningful relationship with.Anyways, I don't know what else to say other than......Kevin, I honestly think that I could get to like you a lot. I know that I want to get to know you better for sure, and being friends with you will be cool, but I hope that we can work something out once we get to know each other better. |
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| Revised Extended Scene from Mambo Italiano (Revised) |
[Jul. 28th, 2004|10:25 pm] |
This should give everyone a little taste of how i feel about being gay.
I've spent almost 25 years in this prison, this prison of guilt and fear and lies and I'm not about to come back. You sacrifice your lives for your children and all along they're miserable, that's right, miserable like you can't even imagine, going to school every day and being called fag this and fag that, waking up every morning hoping I could get through the day without being humiliated. I spent the formative years of my life feeling like shit, trying desperately to fit in, but my peers wouldn't let me in because I'm a fag. And you know what society does to fags in high school? They kill them, not physically but mentally, they annihilate them by chipping away at their dignity day after day after day until no one cares anymore. That's right, cry....cry, cry because unlike some people, I want to inflict my pain on all of you because it's stronger than my guilt right now, so go ahead, cry. Cry over your angry son or your dead sister or your stupid worthless fucked up life. It's been a lovely evening, but I really must go, I hope you all enjoy your lives in your respective cocoons. If any of you would like to get a hold of me, I'll be living in the real world. |
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| Hi everyone |
[Mar. 11th, 2004|08:26 pm] |
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