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Have you ever tried to change yourself for someone you were in a relationship with (or wanted to be in a relationship with)? Did it work?

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[info]ingridg Writer's block: Significant Change
Have you ever tried to change yourself for someone you were in a relationship with (or wanted to be in a relationship with)?

Actually I have. I have given up on things that were part of my life. I Some
 
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[info]bimupp Writer's Block: Significant Change
Yes, and it failed. Badly.
 
jin!smoke
[info]kingkisen Writer's Block: Significant Change
YES, I EVER DID IT.

Actually it's my first time feeling like loving someone so much that I can be anything for him and do everything for him (except my family members and my friends, o
 
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[info]clarks_jewelry Writer's Block: Significant Change
Being the loner I am, I would never change for anyone.  It's just not worth the time or effort.  I've been in a relationship were the guy became unstable in security and loyalty.  After
 
arden/tony
[info]arden_snow Writer's Block: Significant Change

I tried and realized how terrible it was. There were two times. The first time started when I was young, and I did not learn to stop until I was nearly an adult (or 18, which is what America seems t
 
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[info]kakelyn Writer's Block: Significant Change
Oh good lord, Every relationship I've ever BEEN in made me change. I had to, or they would leave me. Which is funny, because don't you start to date someone because you like them for who they are, the
 
Sammi Hanratty
[info]ljswritersblock Writer's Block: Significant Change
Need something to write about and the official Writer's Block archive not cutting it? Well come on over to [info]ljswritersblock, where we have over 500 old Writer's Blocks archived! Never run out of things
 
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[info]un_named_beast Writer's Block: Significant Change
Of course. Everyone does.... but guess what?

If it does work, it doesn't last... and trying to force yourself or someone else into a mold isn't healthy and it isn't right and it would be better to lear
 
Angel and Flowers
[info]moonlitxmelody Writer's Block: Significant Change


Yes. And I'm still trying.
 
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[info]wolfchild08 Writer's Block: Significant Change
Not change, just meerly looked at things from a different perspective and tweeked my thinking, behavior and interest slightly to compliment the others personality.
 
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[info]1_r3gr37_n0n Writer's Block: Significant Change
Currently I'm trying to do that. So far, so good.
 
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[info]relax_liu Вопрос дня: Существенное изменение
Да, кажется, приходилось. и кажется, не получилось ничего путного
 
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[info]alexeipopov Вопрос дня: Существенное изменение
МОЯ ЖЕНА НЕПЕРЕНОСИТ АЛКОГОЛЬ, КОГДА МЫ ПОЗНАКОМИЛИСЬ И Я ОТДАЛ СЕБЕ ОТЧЕТ,ЧТО ВЛЮБИЛСЯ ПОНЯЛ, ЧТО ДОЛЖЕН СДЕЛАТЬ ВЫБОР. ВОТ УЖЕ ОКОЛО 3 ЛЕТ НЕ УПОТРЕБЛЯЮ СПИРТНОГО И ОЧЕНЬ СЧАСТЛИВ ПО ЭТОМУ ПОВОДУ.
 
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[info]beth_ashke Writer's Block: Significant Change
Yes, and no- in that order.
 
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[info]skorpion555 Вопрос дня: Существенное изменение
Да один раз я попыталась что то изменить в себе, но к счастью или к сожалению у меня не чего не получилось . Так что лучше оставаться самой собой и пускай тебя принемают такую какая ты есть.
 
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[info]crazydanc3r Schreibhemmung

I changed a lot for my first boyfriend, but I think it was wrong now a day. But with 15 I thought it was the only chance to keep him by my side. I shouldn´t have made it. Now I know and I would never
 
Demetri Martin
[info]let_it_be_3 Writer's Block: Significant Change
HAHAHHAHAHAHA. no. well, I started listening to this band my crush loved, but I really had been meaning to listen to... he just gave me the motivation to check them out. and i fell in love (in more th
 
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[info]mr_microcuts Writer's Block: Significant Change
Hell yeah. Makes me feel like shit too, because I know I can never be what he wants..a women.Grrr.
Strangely enough I still find myself trying to get his attention, and when he does acknowledge me I sw
 
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[info]babygurl1201 Writer's Block: Significant Change
yeah ! im doing it right now for the first time yo know casue i love him but he's so taking that change for granted,
 
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[info]thatonedanigirl Writer's Block: Significant Change
No.

Honestly - I think this may be one of the biggest problems with relationships. People who try to change for someone are not really understanding the concept of a "relationship" 
 
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[info]devywevybear Writer's Block: Significant Change

Of course it worked and i have never regretted it. i changed myself into a woman for my manly girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol. Fagg.

You need to hook up with stormyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

Slugger.
 
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[info]alyson_c Writer's Block: Significant Change
Yeah, i mean, who hasn't? Everyone wants to find that super special someone, and most will do whatever it takes until they find out that Mr. Super Special Someone is not the *real* super special someo
 

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