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Thursday, September 4th, 2008
11:56 pm [lady_ashe]	Wow. just, WOW I came *OUT* to my dad tonite.  I mean OUT OUT.  His reaction?  "Duh"  He was so non-shocked by it.  I mean, yeah, it was kinda the reaction I expected from him, but still, I was kinda suprised.  But relieved.  I mean, wow.  One more person I can be totally myself with.  He's fine with my belief system, he's cool with my sexuality, he's totally cool with ME being ME.  WOW. He also admitted to me tonite that he's cheated on my mom.  Now, with  my history of my ex having cheated on me and left me for my former best friend, I generally don't like men who cheat on their wives.  I tend to get very angry with them and think that they're either evil or scum of the earth.  I know other women who have found out that their father cheated on their mothers and have hated them.  My reaction tonight?  "I don't blame you.  Honestly?  I don't see how you've stayed married to her for this long."  When he confirmed that it was who I'd suspected it was, my response to that was "Cool.  I loved her, she was cool"  I think I surprised him a bit with my reactions, considering he knows how I feel.  But, as I told him, my feelings about that have changed recently because of a conversation that Ashe and a friend of his had.  His friend's wife is also bi, and his friend said that he didn't feel that it was fair for his wife to not have to be faithful to him but he had to be faithful to her.  Granted, in some relationships like that, the condition is made that she can only have relationships with other females since that is something she 'needs' that her husband can't provide for her, but still, she is stepping outside the marriage but he can't.  I agree that this is not exactly fair.  So, my thoughts on cheating have somewhat changed.  And I've known (again, it's one of those things that I just *know* and I don't know how, nor do I WANT to know how) that my parents didn't have a physical relationship for a very long time.  So, I honestly do not blame my dad for looking outside the relationship.  My mother is a very cold person.  Very.  The only emotions I can honestly say I've seen her show are anger, jealousy, contempt, denial, and greed.  Very few positive emotions.  My mother is a very negative woman.  Bitter and cold.  And she has little patience for people who are not.  She has little patience for people who are not, people like me, who are warm, loving and positive and people-oriented.  My daddy is like me, and is a people-person.  I don't fault him for looking outside the marriage to have his physical AND emotional needs met.  Which just makes me wonder all the more why he's stayed with her.  I have to wonder if I'm the reason.  I don't know. It's just been weird tonite. Current Mood: shocked -[ 3bisexuals | | bi? ]-
12:39 pm [yummymummy88]	I fancy Connie Becham out of Holby City. Is that wrong? lol -[ 1bisexual | | bi? ]-
12:05 am [nyabn]	[International]: We're Here, We're Queer and We Even Play Sports! Reprinted from the article "Openly bisexual Jewish-American basketball player tries out for Maccabi Haif" in the English-language edition of the Israeli newspaper Ha’aretz by Oren Kessler published on August 31st 2008 Maccabi Haifa is reportedly eyeing Jewish-American forward Zach Puchtel, who came out as bisexual while playing for Harvard University last year. ( Read more... ) Current Mood: impressed -[ bi? ]-
Saturday, August 30th, 2008
9:44 pm [kamefran]	Possible BI motto maybe "Hahah this was an old heading I had that I didnt wanna forget so I thought Id stick it here to remember "Im a straight mans best friend, Im woman enough to please them and man enough to be their buddy!." That is all." Chase What Matters -[ 5bisexuals | | bi? ]-
Friday, August 29th, 2008
11:32 am [queerunity]	Palin is Failin When it Comes to Queer Rights Senator John McCain has selected an anti-queer republican for his V.P. choice, although not the worst she certainly has some controversial opinions on LGBT people. http://queersunited.blogspot.com/2008/08/palin-is-failin-when-it-comes-to-queer.html -[ 7bisexuals | | bi? ]-
Monday, August 25th, 2008
11:12 pm [nyabn]	[Westchester County NY] New Bisexual/Pansexual Discussion & Support Group Hello to all you Westchester County Bisexual, Pansexual, "somewhere in the middle between gay/lesbian and straight" people and your friends, lovers and allies. There is now a place and an online group for you. ( please click here to find out more about the meeting and the new online discussion group ) Current Mood: welcoming Current Music: "You've Got to Have Friends" by Bette Midler -[ bi? ]-
5:43 pm [sexy_linguist]	You might remember my latest entry about finding a GLBT-friendly church. I've found a few that I plan on visiting soon. There's a bit of a problem, though. They are both designated as ONA, so I'm not afraid of the pastor flipping out if he learned of my sexual orientation. The issue is "The Ex Factor" One of these churches is, last I knew, the same one that my (lying, manipulative, immature, gold-digging) ex-girlfriend attends. What if she recognizes me? What do I do? Current Mood: calm Current Music: "Just the Way You Are"---Billy Joel -[ 1bisexual | | bi? ]-
Sunday, August 24th, 2008
7:48 pm [bialogue]	[USA] Hallmark's Cards for ALL Occasions VS Right Wing Bigots Hallmark Cards that epitome of middle-American 'normalcy' is now offering Same Sex Marriage Cards, and the right wing is pissed! ( they are rallying their bigots and haters to try and make Hallmark regret and reverse this decision, so please help us turn the tables on them ) Current Mood: chipper Current Music: "I’m Getting Married in the Morning" from the musical "My Fair Lady" -[ bi? ]-
Tuesday, August 19th, 2008
8:32 pm [erice]	I had made friends with this girl earlier in the year. She wasn’t really the kind of person who had friends. She was immature, timid, and very easily intimidated by things. Somehow we became good friends. She really respected me for the things I knew, and one day she told me that I was a mentor to her. When she found out I had a boyfriend things changed. Now she doesn’t speak to me anymore. -[ 5bisexuals | | bi? ]-
Monday, August 18th, 2008
7:23 pm [chasingtides]	Coming Out As A Process ( Cut for tl;dr ) I know that coming out is a continual process - you don't just do it once. I'm just looking for some advice on how people do it in social settings. These friendships, such as they are, are very important to me and for that reason I want to let them know, but to also know that it's not a very huge deal that will change everything. I'm still me, now they'll just know more. Current Music: The Doors - Summertime -[ 17bisexuals | | bi? ]-
Friday, August 15th, 2008
11:56 am [brat_sheba]	Get Your Tickets NOW!!!! Greetings fellow Kinksters! It's not too late to get your Tickets for COPE - The Central Ohio Perversion Excursion!! So get your tickets and set your calendars now for Sept 12 & 13, 2008! It's Central Ohio's own two day kinkstravaganza; an adult fun and educational event in Columbus, Ohio. Newbies & Experienced Kinksters of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome! To get tickets, just go http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE08.html - read through the rules then hit the tickets link. Ticket prices are as follows: For Affiliated BDSM/Leather tickets sales* $65 - Later Tickets (Aug 1 - Sept 6) Non - Affiliated Ticket sales $70 - Later Tickets (Aug 1 - Sept 6) (*Affiliated persons are members of Local/State BDSM/Kink groups and support their local communities.) Come out to a wonderfully fun and exciting kink/BDSM event in Columbus, Ohio! We have something for almost everyone - if you have never been to an event or even if you hit every one, this is the event not to miss! We're bringing in new presenters for one day of educational and stimulating BDSM/relationship classes! Here is the list : Keynote speaker - Mistress Simone from Chicago Other Speakers - Jack Rinella, GrayDancer, Leon, Kimi, Dread Pirate Brian, Amber and Lori, Padre Pugno & Madamoiselle B, Lady Justice and special guest Ms. Oregon Leather - Coral Mallow! We will also have new and former vendors from near and far. The large and comfortable social area will be available to connect with new friends, or rekindle relationships. There will be Two full nights of Play Party Fun, filled with new and beautiful play equipment & furniture! We also have more new happenings! With the addition of the Saturday Night Sensuality Space, the friday night Surprise Meet N Greet game, a chocolate therapy area, new music, and many other changes, things are bound to be hot! We have added another class track for the afternoon! With 5 tracks of interest, from the basic to advanced, there is bound to be something to tickle your fancy! Basic/Advanced skills, General & Sacred Sexuality, Kink philosophy/polyamory/spirituality, Misc stuff and the new ROPE/Bondage Track!! It's gonna be fantastic - the site is coming up slowly but surely - you can check out the info at http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE08.html Get ready, cause it' s almost here!! See ya there! Twistedly, Barak & Brat Sheba and the AIS Staff Current Mood: horny -[ bi? ]-
Thursday, August 14th, 2008
1:08 am [bialogue]	[USA]: Katy Perry's song 'I Kissed a Girl' - Do You Love It or Hate It? ( the American election, is heating up, Russian tanks are on the move, the economy is looking shaky . . . but still all that ANYONE is talking about is That Song! ) Current Mood: curious Current Music: 'I Kissed A Girl' by Katy Perry -[ 23bisexuals | | bi? ]-
Sunday, August 10th, 2008
7:43 pm [amor_demi_alma]	New GLBTQQIA Community FEEL FREE TO DELETE IF INAPPROPRIATE. Hi Guys! I just created a community at glbtq_disabled . It's for members of the GLBTQQIA community to make friends and discuss being gay as it relates to being disabled in any way, be it physical, mental, learning, etc. Anyone, gay or straight or anything in between, is welcome to check it out and join. Be sure to tell your friends! Thanks, Caitlin -[ bi? ]-
5:30 pm [retronami]	GLBQ Blogging Research Do you identify as gay, lesbian,bisexual, or questioning? Do you blog? I'm a student in the PacificNorthwest, studying for a Masters in Social Work. I'm currently conducting research about how GLBQ individuals utilize blogging intheir daily lives to form identity, and build social supports. As technology becomes more a part of our society, it's important to figure out how to use it to our best benefit. It would be a great help if you took a few minutes to fill out my online survey about being gay and being a blogger. It's completely anonymous and wil lhelp shed some light on how the GLBQ community is speaking out onblogs. Click Here to take the survey. And please feel free to pass this link along! Thank you! -[ 4bisexuals | | bi? ]-
Saturday, August 9th, 2008
5:55 pm [bialogue]	[USA]: A '“Budding Activist' Is Already Teaching Some Old Dogs New Tricks This great Letter To The Editor was just published in the Washinton Blade with the title "‘Gay’ is not an inclusive term and alienates some readers": ( click here to read more and feel hopeful ) Current Mood: optimistic Current Music: "Ain't It the Truth" by The Gossip -[ bi? ]-
11:26 am [devin_boi]	FWD: Three Minutes or Less We have three events planned for August. As always we really need your help to get the word out. We prefer not to use a lot of flyers (that usually don't get recycled). So please help us out by forwarding this email or by referring people to our website. Upcoming events- August 2008, VANCOUVER, BC. We have Three upcoming events. Thursday, August 14: For The Love Of Bi… a Bisexual Speed Friending/Dating Event. Come out and meet available folks who want to meet people and have fun. For the Love of Bi … is dedicated to those of us who's sexuality doesn't quite fit in one or two boxes. As always this is a Trans inclusive space, and a no-pressure to partake party. Doors: 7:30pm. Game begins at 8:03pm. Cover $10. Jupiter Lounge, 1216 Bute St. http://www.threeminutesorless.ca/ http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=23074157181#/event.php?eid=29637645126 —————————————————————————————————- Thursday, August 21. M Hearts M! a Gay Speed Friending/Dating Event. Come out and meet available folks who want to meet people and have fun. M Hearts M! is dedicated to males who like males. As always this is a Trans inclusive space, and a no-pressure to partake party. Doors: 7:30pm. Game begins at 8:03pm. Cover $10. Jupiter Lounge, 1216 Bute St. http://www.threeminutesorless.ca/ http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=23074157181#/event.php?eid=21402186121 —————————————————————————————————- Thursday, August 28. It's Your Party! a Queer Speed Friending/Dating Event. Come out and meet available folks who want to meet people and have fun. It's Your Party! Open to all genders and sexualities. As always this is a Trans inclusive space, and a no-pressure to partake party. Doors: 7:30pm. Game begins at 8:03pm. Cover $10. Rhizome, 317 East Broadway. http://www.threeminutesorless.ca/ http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=23074157181#/event.php?eid=23074157181 —————————————————————————————————- -------------------------------------- If you have a Facebook, you can add our events and invite people to come: http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=23074157181#/event.php?eid=29637645126 http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=23074157181#/event.php?eid=21402186121 http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=23074157181#/event.php?eid=23074157181 -------------------------------------------------------------------- -[ bi? ]-
Thursday, August 7th, 2008
8:40 pm [bialogue]	[USA]: GLAAD You Are Making Us Sad! So like all good little Queer Activists I was quickly skimming thru GLAAD's "Stories to Watch" section when I cam upon these two items: 1.) Out-of-State Gay and Lesbian Couples Can Marry in Massachusetts 2.) New Studies on Marriage for Gay and Lesbian Couples ( GLAAD the term is 'Same Sex Marriage and you of all organizations know this! So why are you disrespecting and distracting a large portion of the LGBT Community by using this non-inclusive language especially in this important election year? ) Current Mood: disappointed Current Music: "Not My Friend" by Norah Jones -[ 3bisexuals | | bi? ]-
Wednesday, August 6th, 2008
11:01 am [ctuttle]	buttons Hi all,      I volunteer at a queer advocacy center which regularly makes buttons to sell to raise funds for buying some queer literature for schools in BC. I was wondering if anyone has any button designs (already round pictures if possible and decent resolution) or links to places with good images. Any queer spectrum buttons would be really appreciated, especially from the more underrepresented letters. Thanks! -[ bi? ]-
Tuesday, August 5th, 2008
10:51 am [sweetcoal]	comfort? First, i dont know how anyone in here feels about being in a polygamist/open relationship, but if you have issues with it, that's fine, as long as you can express your opinion in a civil way. if you are just going to bash the entry, i would ask that you refrain from commenting. thank you. for almost the past four months, i have been in an open relationship, with my amazing boyfriend of over 2.5 years, and an amazing girl that i got really close to this year at school and wanted to go out with so bad(this is mostly about her). i graduated this year, but she still has 2 more years. i always felt so bad because over the summer, ive hardly gotten to see her, since i dont have a car anymore and i'm sure there were more thing i could have dont to prevent that, but i didnt. i finally got to see her for a good part of yesterday, we had fun, like we usually do, when i was getting ready to leave she put her arms on my shoulders and said there was something she needed to talk to me about. her ex wants them to get back together (she's not the kind of girl that would be ok with an open relationship). she really misses her and wants her back, and my girlfriend was lonely and wanted someone to pamper, and she was worried about what would happen with prom this year and other things. she asked me if it was ok if we broke it off, i'm not going to say no, that's not right, it would be selfish. we're still going to be close friends, i've become one of her closest friends, and she said her girlfriend will need to deal with her still hugging and kissing me like we used to. i kept it together until i was driving home when i finally broke down and called my boyfriend and he came over and helped me feel better. i guess i'm so upset about this because i wanted her for so long, i had her, and i lost her. this was never about picking one or the other, since they both mean so much to me, but on different levels from one another. some things it was easier to talk to him about, some things it was easier to talk to her about. i had to call my boyfriend again after he left my house, i just felt so alone. he keeps reminding me that i still have him. i do, he is my everything. i dont know what i would have dont without him. i guess the point of this was just to talk about it, see if anyone had any similar situations. thanks for all who take the time to read this. Current Mood: sad -[ 11bisexuals | | bi? ]-
10:29 pm [cymplictea]	helloer im new to  lJ n i already like the groups on here.....hope to meet new people  Holler Current Mood: silly Current Music: buss it baby-plies -[ 1bisexual | | bi? ]-