im a narwhal ([info]dino_secks) wrote in [info]__postsecret,
@ 2005-09-23 14:30:00
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Will you go out with me?
T O P I C ♥ : This has two parts.
1.) Describe the perfect person for you. & if you've found them, tell us what about them makes you attracted to them. (For example: I like so-and-so because he has the best personality, not to mention a great butt.)
2.) Descrive your dream date. Where would you go? What would you do? Who would it be with?

Have fun with this one!

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-23 07:42 pm UTC (link)
1) my perfect person : im not sure yet. i know that he has to keep me bust cuz i get bored in relationships really easily. and he has to make me laugh.

2)my perfect date : would probably be a suprise. where he takes me somewhere and we have like a picnic and stay there all day and lay under the stars and fall asleep together.
^^ I've thought about this one lol.

I wish i could find that perfect guy.

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[info]l0nes0medreamer
2005-09-23 07:50 pm UTC (link)
Hmm let's see the perfect person has to be someone that randomly does things just because you're sad or just well because they love you. I'd want them to trust and respect me like I would them. I'd like for them to definately be different than me that way we could try out each others things. They have to know how to have fun and not only want to see me to like make out or whatever. I pretty much just thought all of that up because I used what I know about my boyfriend now and my ex boyfriend who I swear was perfect...

Umm a perfect date for me well there isn't one. It wouldn't matter where it was as long as I was with that person. It could be in my own fields for all I care.(Which actually are fun)

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-23 08:07 pm UTC (link)
1. My boyfriend, because he gets me. He knows what to order for me at McDonald's. He knows when to just shut up and leave me alone. He knows when I'm upset, even if I haven't seen him that day yet. And he'll call to make sure I'm okay. His sex is wonderful and he always smells so pretty.

2. My dream date would be with my boyfriend at the same park, on the same bench where we had our first kiss.

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[info]inpinktights
2005-09-23 08:27 pm UTC (link)
thats adorable

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[info]inpinktights
2005-09-23 08:31 pm UTC (link)
1. perfect person- would just know when i needed that hug. or when i needed to talk. they could make me laugh but cry cause nothing is perfect. he would be him. nothing more or less.

2. perfect date- wherever he thought was perfect would be perfect cause he thought of it.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-23 08:46 pm UTC (link)
perfect person would be someone who will tell me when im being crazy or stupid, who gets my sarcasim and always makes me laugh. they'd also be able to make me feel better no matter what the situation. they'd hug me or give me a kiss just because they felt like it and be romantic on a whim

perfect date would be eating takeout while watching a movie and then laying outside under the stars no matter what the temperature was.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-23 08:55 pm UTC (link)
i thought my boyfriend was the perfect person, but then he started to yell at me. my perfect person is that boy, before he went away. spontaneous but affectionate.

my perfect date is going kite flying and thrift store shopping and then, falling asleep together in a park.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-23 10:52 pm UTC (link)
I don't think I have a perfect person for me. My boyfriend is great, but he is definitely not perfect.

My perfect date is just any place I could be with the person I like/love and just be comfortable and not have any worries.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-23 10:58 pm UTC (link)
1. the perfect person for me would give me lots of attention, but none to other girls. to him, other girls wouldn't exist.
he would be the one person that made me feel like the most beautfiul girl in the world.
he would never lie, and never cheat. and he wouldn't ever be tempted to.
he would be patient with me, and my moods. and just know when i needed to be left alone, or if i should not be left alone.
he would love to do things with me and wouldn't get sick of me. we'd go to concerts and things together.
he'd be into some form of art, and would be political.
he's not quite perfect, but pretty close.
2. my dream date would be out to dinner, then somewhere fun, and ended up somewhere we could be completely alone and undisturbed.

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[info]sourapplesmiles
2005-09-24 02:37 am UTC (link)
1. This is the perfect man for me: He has to be able to carry on a decent conversation. He has to be able to make me laugh. He has to be spontaneous. He has to be willing to take late night phone calls from me just to talk. He has to put up with all my quirky, dorky behaviors. He has to love music just as much as I do. He has to be open minded and not quick to judge other people. He has to be honest with me. He'd never make me feel bad about myself. Above all, he has to love me.
2. My dream date would be somewhere we could talk and look up at the stars...someplace like the beach or a nice park.

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[info]radiosong______
2005-09-24 02:49 am UTC (link)
I want a boy. the most amazing boy there is out there.
that won't lead me on. that won't pretend he cares. that won't lie to me. that won't fuck me over. that will cuddle with me. that will go to shows with me. that will dance with me. that will surprise me. that will play hide and seek with me. that will buy me roses for no reason. that will tell me I'm worth his time. i want a boy who's never going to break my heart.

too much, i know.

the perfect date. he picks me up. we drive aimlessly. he says the sweetest things. we go to the park and lay in the grass, look at the stars. he makes me laugh. he makes me love. i lay in his arms and when he notices im cold, wraps his jacket around me. there are no awkward silences, only comfortable ones. where we can listen to the beat of our hearts. he makes me feel alive and cared for. it doesn't matter what we do, just the kind little gestures he makes to show he loves me.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 02:51 am UTC (link)
1. The perfect person for me would understand that people grow and change, and that that is inevitable. He wouldn't look at me after time had passed and say "I miss the way you used to be." He would almost be able to read my mind. He would do awesome and romantic things "just because."

2. The perfect date: Dinner. A game. Out with friends to have fun. The home to just be us. :)

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 03:18 am UTC (link)
I think I"ve met my perfect person. The problem is that we're both really attracted to eachother but he is in a three year strong relationship. Things have been inredible between us. He makes me laugh, he makes me feel beautiful- confident even. Its so nice to have someone whos into all the same things you are... time flies when I'm with him and he is just incredibly adorable. *sigh* He's away at college now, so I miss him terribly. He's coming home next weekend and I'm spending an entire day with him. I wish his girlfriend didn't exhist, she's not right for him anyway. He has like the best features too, like he's a good 6 inches taller than me which is amazing because being 5'7" its hard to feel "short" and with him I do. WHen he hugs me he picks me up and just holds me really tight. He knows the way to my ♥ is through forehead kisses. He's really a guy I want to call mine... :sigh:

My dream date is probably going out downtown (chicago) and spending the day wandering the city. I spent time down there with an ex-boyfirend now best friend and we went to the Shedd aquarium and then wandered around the city. We took tons of pictures and I really had fun just laying on his stomach in millenium park. I need to get out of the house more...

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 03:21 am UTC (link)
1. i love him cause he treats me like a human being. i'm attracted to his red hair, green eyes, soft face and boy-hands. [yes. the long and skinny fingers. oh so sexy.]
2. the dream date... hmm. i'm not much for dating. but i suppose dinner would be nice, then perhaps to his house. and the date would of course be with my current lover.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 05:56 am UTC (link)
1. I think I've found him. He makes me laugh, he treats me with respect; he's great. I always want to really listen to what he's saying, and he's so beautiful.

2. Anything with him. Really, truly, anything would be perfect.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 09:45 am UTC (link)
Perfect person: A girl who thinks I'm weird, but likes me that way. A girl that doesn't want me to be normal. A girl that knows that I'm a freak, but that's exactly why she loves me. She will see me curled up on the couch reading a comic book and sit behind me, wrap herself around me, and read over my shoulder, and we'll giggle at the same panels and she won't have to say one word; we'll just know what the other is thinking. She'll tell me when a certain outfit just isn't working for me, but she'll help me find one that does. She'll love my grilled cheese sandwiches and let me make them for her every Sunday afternoon.

Pefect date: We'll go to a quiet cafe and stay there through sunset, talking and drinking. Then we'll leave and drive around aimlessly, continuing conversation and laughing over the stupid things we say. Then we'll go back to my house and jump into the pool in our clothes, having a water fight and ending the night with a kiss under the moon in the water.

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[info]sociallynobody
2005-09-24 11:14 am UTC (link)
I already met my perfect person, I just wish he hadn't run me through the ground with problems.
He was caring, funny, fun to be around, really sensitive, and had really deep eyes.
If our dream date was to ever occur, I'm sure he'd take me out to dinner at wherever I wanna go, but it'd be like chinese food, and play on the swings all night, in a dress & tux, and stare at the stars. It's a childish date, but then again, when I was a kid, I think I might've felt real happiness.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 05:21 pm UTC (link)
I)I've been through alot of horrible relationships. I've done things out of my will, infact all the boys that I've ever kissed, I never wanted to kiss. I always thought that I wouldn't be able to have a good relationship, where I truly loved and cared for the other person.
I met a boy this year, and I started liking him while I was dating another. The boy I was dating loved me, but I didn't love him back. He took good care of me, he made sure I was doing okay, he did amazing things for me, but I couldn't find feelings for him. When I went away to California, I wrote letters to the boy I liked, we were friends, and we had the most intullectual and insightful conversations. My mind had been yearning for that stimulation, someone that understood my words. The boy I was dating dropped out of school, he wasn't much to talk to. He said things I already knew in the most simple forms; not much insight either. When I came back from California, I knew I needed to let my boyfriend go. I didn't want to hurt him or lead him on anymore, he didn't deserve to be treated that way. So, I did, and it was done.
I started hanging out alot with the boy I liked and all of our friends, it was starting to become the best summer of my life. We often hung out at an old apartment, all of us laughing and having wonderful times, I was discovering what happiness was. It had been too long since I had carried those feelings. I was discovering what it was like to fall-in-like with someone for their personality and level of intulect. He was funny, always making silly remarks or doing hilarious things, my favorite. I like people who have a sense of humor and be serious- equally balanced. To me, those kinds of people know how to live, it's honesty to me. Eventually, we found ourselves talking until three am, spending more and more time together, enjoying eachother's company. Our friends were always there, and I liked that, I didn't know I was allowed to be with my friends and the person I took interest in at the same time, a wonder to me.
He went away for a week, and I went away for a week after him. We wrote eachother letters, and found that we were missing eachother. He is different than the other boys, his letters expanded on more than talking about his feelings for me, he wrote with substance, important things to say. On Monday, we'll have been together for only one month, but this one month feels like two years. God blesses our relationship every day, for the first time I can give someone my love and respect, and he returns it. There's still substance in our conversation, there's friendship, we don't spend much time alone, we spend alot of it with other people. We haven't kissed and we don't plan to for a while, there's more to our relationship than just ourselves. We share our time and love with the people around us, and we share it with God. I don't think I can ask for anything better.

II)I don't like thinking of dream dates, a date is a date, and I usually take it for what it is. That way, I don't expect anything, and I can enjoy because I have no expectations. Maybe I don't take dating very seriously, because to me it's just a time spent alone. It really doesn't hold special meaning, maybe that will change as I become more intimate with someone, but I think they're meant to have fun, so have fun. That's my opinion.

It felt good to get that off of my chest, I have not told anyone.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-28 06:14 pm UTC (link)
wow.
thats why this community is so good.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 08:48 pm UTC (link)
the person i consider perfect is sitting next to me, and he has no idea.

he is homeless,a highschool dropout, and a cocaine dealer, and i'm in love. all i ever want to do when we're sleeping is to move those four inches closer to him, but I'm too scared.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-24 08:52 pm UTC (link)
The more I've been hanging out with the boy i consider to be perfect, the more drugs I do, the less I sleep, the less I eat, the more i lie, and the more frustrated I get.

I don't know how muchl onger I can keep up with his lifestyle, and I wonder if it will ever be worth it.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-25 01:57 am UTC (link)
i have all of these ideas of a perfect person and a perfect date but i'm afraid i'll never find him and we'll never go on that date... i'm also afraid that if i tell this to my friends they'll laugh at me

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[info]s2_punkrock
2005-09-25 10:36 am UTC (link)
1) the perfect person would be a little bit taller than me. he would have hair that would suit him. they would be skinny enough for me to steal their clothes (*grins*). they would have the prettyest eyes. and would smile the cutest smile. and they would be there for me to talk to, and hug, and cry with.
2) we would go anywhere, because they wouldnt care where we went. they would just enjoy the time we spent together.

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(Anonymous)
2005-09-27 10:14 pm UTC (link)
1) Perfect guy: I may or may not have already found him. Almost all the guys
I've gone out with before were just in it to get
some. But he is different. We can talk for hours
about anything and sometimes we dont even have to
talk at all. He's knows what's wrong before I
tell him. He knows when I just need a hug and
nothing more. He knows when I need to talk. He's
amazing.

2) Perfect Date: The perfect date...hmm. Renting
movies and buying popcorn and just spending the
night talking and watching movies with him, it
would be perfect.

He's all I could ever ask for and more.
♥

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(Anonymous)
2005-10-01 09:50 pm UTC (link)
1)i just want someone who loves me and shows it

2)a nice gig would be great

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(Anonymous)
2005-10-03 01:28 am UTC (link)

1;; funny. smart (but not smarter than me.) honest and trustworthy, someone who believes me to be equally trustworthy and honest. someone who never bores me, who i look forward to talking to, who can make (or break) my day. someone romantic, but not sickeningly so. someone who believes that i'm beautiful, even if i can never believe it myself. someone who respects me and my beliefs. someone who loves me for who i am, not what i look like or what i do.

someone who KNOWS who i am, because i won't have to hide anything around them. someone who can be MY postsecret.org.

2;; staying together at his house. laying next to each other on his bed and talking, and then falling asleep next to each other.

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(Anonymous)
2005-11-07 02:59 am UTC (link)
1. i've found him. everything makes me attracted to him. his hair...his clothes...his smile. EVERYTHING.

2. my dream date would be to go to the pier and watch the sun set, then walk along the beach at night.

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(Anonymous)
2005-11-24 05:23 am UTC (link)
1. I've found him. He's one of those boys where..you notice the little things that the whole picture perfect. He's very strong, and has the brightest blue eyes I've ever seen with an incredible pattern. I love his hand size compared to mine. I love how I feel comfortable at HIS house in HIS bed with his arm around me. I love how you can hear the little breaths he takes when he's sleeping. I like how he throws things when he gets mad. I can honestly go on forever.

2. well my perfect date would obviously be with sonny moore. not because he's in a famous rock band. I honestly don't think he's as attractive as everyone says. but he's an incredible guy, even my dad loves him haha. we'd be at one of his shows, and he'd acknowledge me in the crowd. when we left on the bus, we'd make a pit stop at the beach.we'd go for a cute walk and when we got back he would have this whole thing planned out with the band where they have all the decorations prepared, even though it's not THAT romantic I wish that would actually happen.

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(Anonymous)
2006-02-18 03:47 am UTC (link)
He's taller than me by about two inches. He's got shaggy emo-boy dark hair and light blue eyes. He's got light but sun-kissed skin. He's got a pretty face and a great body. He always kisses my forehead, lips, and neck and holds my hand & waist and whispers in my ear. Whenever I cry he holds me and comforts me. He writes me songs and plays them for me. He gives me his jacket when its cold. Any and every guy who's being a jackass has to go through him. He falls in love with me, and when he does, he tells me.

My dream date with him.. I don't even know.

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[info]012301234
2006-09-10 07:24 am UTC (link)
My ex.

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[info]012301234
2006-10-04 07:39 am UTC (link)
He is a gentleman. He'd be totally whipped, no doubt. He'd want to know me inside and out. He'd study my entire body, know every little mother fucking detail. He'd ask the most personal questions. He'd be open and up front with everything. He would have common intresets. He'd tell me I'm beautiful and the only girl for him constantly. He would have never touched, kissed or have even liked another girl before me. He'd let me have my space when I need it. He'd be at my feet when I want it. He'd have a kind of deep voice, but it'd crack. He'll be physically attractive to me, I can't really say what I'd like but I want him to look good, I don't know. I want him to look away when a slut is on tv. I want him to be cuddler. I want him to be needy and want me and shit all the time, that's adorable. He'd be fucking rich. Haha God this is never going to happen. pissing me off, actually.

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[info]r_u_bald
2007-02-19 07:34 am UTC (link)
hahah my dream man

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(Anonymous)
2006-11-19 06:45 am UTC (link)
I found him.

He's sweet, perverted, honest and everything I've dreamt of. He listens to e rant, complain and asks me to talk about my day with him.

He has great taste in music, he's understanding, he's willing to do anything for me. He sends me cute and sweet emails telling me how much he loves me and how I'm always on his mind.

To me, he's perfect.

We would start by me making you a nice dinner at my house. The dinner would include candles and everything. After dinner and somehow the dishes would magically do themselves haha, we would go for a very long walk under the moon and stars holding hands and you leaning on my shoulder. After our walk we would go get hot chocolate or coffee if its cold or ice cream if its hot.
We would make our way back to my place where we would go to my room and lay in bed and watch a movie together and I would hold you and we would eat pop corn (which knowing me I would probably throw a few kernels at you to be silly) after the movie if you were staying with me I would give you a kiss goodnight probably a fairly long romantic kiss.
Then I would go to sleep on the floor and you in my bed. The next morning I would bring you breakfast in bed. Rice crispies of course.


<3

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(Anonymous)
2006-11-19 06:46 am UTC (link)
^ the last block was what he said.

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[info]xxxrawkstarrxxx
2007-08-12 11:01 pm UTC (link)
be honest.
love me.
and keep believing in me.

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[info]1eprechaun
2008-03-24 04:01 am UTC (link)
the perfect man: he'd be complicated, and brilliant, and probably a little vulgar. Sweet and deeply caring on the inside, a family man but trouble showing it, and hopelessly inlove with me. He'd have short dark hair, and deep set eyes, and he'd only TRULY be himself around me, because he'd know I love him more than anyone and would be there no matter what.

perfect date? He'd invite me to see him play with his band, and then we'd grab pizza and eat it in his backyard under a tree.Then we'd lay there and talk until the sun went down and I got cold, but instead going in, he'd just haul a blanket outside and wrap us in it until we both fell asleep.

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[info]gemstonetiaras
2008-06-19 06:10 pm UTC (link)
1)i've found him. he plays the guitar, and he wrote me a song. he has the most beautiful eyes, (girl eyes, with super long curly lashes) that makes me drool whenever he looks at me. he's an athlete, he plays soccer. he is an awesome kisser, always leaves me wanting for me. and i can never stay mad at him for a long time, i hafta give in. my sisters likes him, my maids like him, my dad won't admit it but he approves of him. he's a good guy, and he's gone through so much; his dad had an affair and he failed a huge exam. i'm so proud of him going through all of this. when he hugs, cuddles, holds my hand. when he wraps his arm around my waist, and pulls me closer, and nuzzles in my neck and whispers "i love you." and tickles me till i squeal and he kisses me on the forehead/nose. he always tries to impress me, although we both know i love him so much he doesnt need to. and, girls go crazy for him, and i know how lucky i am. he is the most amazing boy everrr. i love you. :)

2) first, we'd go to a movie, preferably a horror movie. then, we'd go to the beach, watch the sunset, where he would kiss me. and then, we'd go to a park and watch the stars, and we'd fall asleep together. or whatever, as long as i'm with him.

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